My Petty Luxury Hotel Complaint: Minor, But Am I Being Unreasonable?

Let me start by acknowledging that in the scheme of things that matter, this doesn’t even rank. But OMAAT is also about covering the little details of the airline & hotel industry (I mean, I write about my favorite airline boarding music), so please indulge me for a moment.

Why can’t hotels spell my last name correctly?

When you check into a luxury hotel, it’s common to get a welcome amenity with some sort of a note that’s addressed to you, typically from someone senior at the hotel. Sometimes the note will be handwritten, and sometimes it’ll be printed. Sometimes it’ll be a scribbled sentence, and sometimes it’ll be quite long.

It’s intended to be a nice, personalized touch. After all, luxury hospitality is more competitive than ever before, and is all about the little details. But here’s the thing — a substantial amount of the time, my name is spelled incorrectly in the welcome letter (my last name is Schlappig, and they spell it “Schlapping”). I haven’t done the math on how common this is, but I’d say it’s misspelled maybe 25% of the time in these letters.

To me, this doesn’t seem complicated, no matter how difficult a last name is for someone. The hotel has a reservation in a certain name, and when that letter is written, you just have to copy down the name as it’s spelled on the booking. It doesn’t matter if the name is Ng or Tskhdjflkdshjfrkjeshrklesn.

I’m not trying to throw any one hotel under the bus here, but below is an example of a note I received a couple of days ago at a hotel. Like I said, this happens a lot.

A misspelled hotel welcome note

Why do I even care, and why am I writing about this?

I think most hoteliers would agree that it’s the little details that guests notice about a luxury hotel stay. I also think first impressions matter a lot.

So when you arrive in the room and one of the first things you notice is that the hotel manager can’t spell your name correctly, it doesn’t make a great first impression. Again, none of this actually matters in the scheme of things, but I imagine the manager trains the staff to be focused on all the little details of service, so how can one expect such attention to detail from staff, when the manager can’t even get something so basic right?

Now, I suspect the manager isn’t actually the one writing these notes, but if he’s going to put his name on it, then I’ll take it at face value.

It’s not like I’m actually offended, or take it personally. It’s just a little negative detail I notice, and in a hyper competitive hotel market, hotels try to strive for perfection. If it happened once or twice, I wouldn’t think much of it. But like I said, it happens a decent percentage of my hotel stays.

I’m rather introverted and I don’t like to complain, but I’m starting to get to the point where I’m considering just bringing this to the hotel’s attention. It’s not that I want anything, I just want them to know they’re making this mistake, because I imagine if no one tells them, they’ll never realize it. And I imagine if they’re making this mistake for me, they’re also making the mistake with others.

But then I come to my senses, and realize this is petty. And as someone who is introverted and doesn’t really like to complain, I don’t feel like this will put me over the edge. When I checked out of the hotel, I was asked how my stay was, and it was mostly very good. I was tempted to say “good, but the manager couldn’t spell my name right in the welcome note,” and then I realized that’s just too minor to bring up. So maybe just being able to write a post about this scratches my itch on that front.

Am I wrong for noticing this, and for thinking it shows a lack of attention to detail? Does anyone else deal with this regularly? Is it totally crazy to bring this to a hotel’s attention?

Bottom line

Too many luxury hotels can’t seem to spell my name correctly in welcome letters, and it happens way more often than it should. Is this minor as could be? Of course. But if luxury hotels are all about the details, then a note signed by the manager being addressed to a guest with a misspelled name seems less than ideal, especially as a first impression.

This is so minor that I can’t bring myself to actually say something. But it also happens with such frequency that I feel the need to bring it up in some capacity… so thank you to OMAAT readers for scratching that itch!

Am I unreasonable for noticing this, and thinking it shows a lack of attention to detail? Is there a point at which you’d politely bring this up?

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It's sooo frustrating Ben. I feel your pain. My name is only six letters long. However, my spelling is less common. My name is misspelled 90% of the time on any hotel note. Often, my first and last names are misspelled, adding an "e" to my first name and misspelling my last completely. I will spell my name out loud, hand over my id and still have clerks say I don't have a reservation because they are typing in the wrong spelling. Yesterday I started to spell it for someone and they said "I remember" and, yep, my first and last names were misspelled. People don't listen and they don't read.

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Anthony Guest

Hyatt Paris Vendome cracks me up. The fellow in charge of Paris raised up all his Hyatt hotels categories a few categories up. But he did not raise the standard or quality of the hotels. It is a Monopoly for him and to fool Hyatt USA. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. And that has definetly fallen down here. Ok, I could still afford the points. I am a Globalist and other hotels highest levels. ALL THE HIGH END HOTELS HAVE FORGOTTEN, what it is to be at those levels. Probably they get away with so many mistakes, they think guests just accept them or are ignorant or resigned to today's lower standards because guest don't speak up about them. And if you speak out about the services and quality or standards, you'll get VP Michel Morauw combing thru your account nitpicking and even making things up to get Chicago to come down on you. Is that really high level hoteling? Not really. The Tech there is disgraceful. Hyatt Vendome. The wooden doors squeak opening and closing. The telephone is from 1950. You can hardly see the TV thru the mirror cover. There are no channels to speak of. American/English news. No programs. There is Youtube, that is if you can connect it and get it running, and when you do it freezes. What a place. And the food quality has reduced in taste and quality. At the restaurant. Just unbelievable. Doesn't Hyatt have any good management in the upper tiers, fresh blood with new ideas, intelligent to not shy away from technology?? Thorough supervising from the USA to expose the monopoly in France and Europe away from Michel Morauw? He will be 65 this year, isn't it time to go? C'mon Mark H, get involved in your company, travel not as King, but as a person as a guest and see what Hyatt category 8-9 giving to your guest. See how it really is.

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iamhere Guest

Not like you are offended but you wrote an entire article about it so you do care and you are offended

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AK Guest

I find it annoying that you have to ask for slippers now in most places. Yeah you still get them so it's not a huge deal but it's just annoying they are trying to save a dollar by hoping no one asks for them.

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François Guest

This happens to me a lot, so I get your irritation for this. However, I don't think I'd ever bring it up though.

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