How My Perception Of “Aspirational Travel” Is Shifting As I Get Older…

As I start to write this post, I’m not sure where exactly I’m trying to go with it. But here it goes anyway…

“Aspirational travel” is my goal with miles & points

I love aspirational travel, and for me that’s the beauty of miles & points. Everyone is looking for different experiences with miles & points, and in my cases I like to redeem them for experiences I couldn’t otherwise afford, like international first class tickets and very expensive hotels.

However, as I get older, I notice my impression of things is shifting a bit, and I think sometimes that’s interesting to reflect on. While I might not be “old” yet (I’m 26), I’ve been flying hundreds of thousands of miles per year for about a decade now, so I think I can at least justifiably say I’m more easily exhausted than I used to be when it comes to travel.

Don’t get me wrong, getting on a plane still makes me giddy. Watching a sunrise or sunset from a plane (whether I’m seated in the first or last row) is still one of my favorite experiences in the world.

Even my amazement at aspirational travel hasn’t faded much, like how I can shower on an Emirates plane…

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Or how I can be driven to the plane in a Porsche when flying Lufthansa…

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Or how I can redeem miles for an “apartment” on Etihad…

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Or how I can redeem miles for a double bed on Singapore…

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That stuff is amazing… but…

My perception of aspirational travel is changing

Here’s my point, which I’ll share in the context of my visit yesterday to the First Class Terminal. This is Lufthansa’s incredible first class lounge, which is disconnected from the rest of the terminal. This has always been one of my favorite first class lounges, though I hadn’t visited in about two years.

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I’ve flown Lufthansa first class a countless number of times, and so often I’d intentionally plan super long layovers so I could enjoy the lounge. However, prior to yesterday I hadn’t been for almost 2.5 years, and was surprised by how my impression changed.

Don’t get me wrong, the lounge is fantastic and gorgeous. We had a three hour layover, which in practice meant we had about two hours in the lounge, since it took about 30 minutes to get to the lounge, while we left the lounge about 40 minutes before departure.

Before our visit I was worried the connection was too short, though 10 minutes after arriving in the lounge I was sort of twiddling my thumbs, which is the first time I’ve ever felt that way.

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In the past I would have ordered a cappuccino, then had a fresh pretzel and Fanta, then had a meal, then taken a bath with the cute First Class Terminal rubber ducky, then gotten in a nap room for about 15 minutes just for giggles, etc.

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However, I’m trying to generally live a healthier life nowadays (recognizing that my lifestyle in general is extremely unhealthy), and part of that is not eating just for giggles. I had just gotten off a flight where I had a big meal, so I didn’t really need a cappuccino or pretzel or Fanta or another meal.

Instead I ordered a black coffee and a glass of water, and that’s all I had in the First Class Terminal. I took a quick shower, and spent the rest of my time there getting caught up on work. Rather than feeling like our connection was too short, I was starting to feel like it was too long.

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Of course I loved being driven to the plane in a car on the taxiways. As an aviation geek that’s something that will never get old. At the same time, in practice we ended up walking an extra 20 minutes to the First Class Terminal for the privilege of that.

The real benefit of the First Class Terminal is the convenience of skipping the airport altogether if you’re originating in Frankfurt, which of course wasn’t the case for our journey.

What’s my point?

Over time peoples’ priorities change, so it was interesting for me to experience that firsthand in the context of one of my favorite lounges in the world. Again, I love flying just as much as before, and I’ve loved reviewing new airlines and have found that to be actively enjoyable, even when the airlines aren’t great.

But as what we’re looking for out of experiences changes, overall impressions of products change as well. While the First Class Terminal is incredible, I didn’t have that same childhood level of amazement I’ve had in the past, and part of that is because I’m trying to be healthier and more responsible.

For a lot of my travels, the journey is the destination, since I’m flying with the intent of reviewing new airlines. However, for travel where the destination is the actual destination, my priorities are slowly starting to shift.

Is Austrian business class nonstop to Vienna better than Lufthansa first class to Frankfurt, with a connection in intra-Europe business class to Vienna? In the past I would have said “absolutely no way,” while now I’m thinking “hmmm, maybe it is.”

Again, I’m not sure what exactly my point is, though I’m curious if others can relate to the overall sentiment.

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Barky Chomperoni Guest

You're getting older and wiser. 'Nuff said.

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Dan Guest

Let me help you be solutions oriented. To put it all back in to perspective, you should do some flights in economy. Doing quite a few economy flights, then splurging for a first class ticket is the best feeling ever - it never fades because you feel like you earned it. Like I said, it is all perspective thinking..."ahh, isn't this first class lounge and free meal and booze nice? I could be in the economy right now instead."

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Aaexplat Guest

I am 41. I have been traveling a metric crapton for work for 15+ years. This year, I will put in 200k+ BIS miles for work and another gazillion for taking my family on vacations. I got into the miles game in the mid 90s in highschool. I have gone through what you are going throug and there are some factors that plag into it IMO.... First, if you have flown a bunch of airlines in J or F, the thrill for future trips is less because the newness has worn off. Second, when one is a broke kid, getting treated like a grown up baller is fun because it validates the desire to be your own man and succeed. But as you get older and succeed in real life, such as in your job, and especially when you start making real money (like you do now), the adulation from airline service personnel feels hollower than it used to and you don't need that stimulous to groom your ego anymore. Third, as you get older and you add significant others and especially kids, flying takes on a different role. For me, it is merely the way to get somewhere, not the experience itself. I have flown with my kids in J to Europe, Asia and within North America and the kids don't care what class of service they are flying...but if we have a dozen stopovers and they are tired...I will feel that far more than sitting upright for 12 hours. Fourth, your body simply doesn't do as well at 41 as it did at 26. I am fit and trim and active, but getting up at 3am every week to catch a flight gets harder every year no matter how much sleep I had the night before. What you are going through is normal and I would expect it to get worse with time. Enjoy tbe new things life brings and don't bemoan the ones you lose too much.

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Greg Guest

Fantastic post. This post hits home with me. I have many similar feelings as yourself. I was starting to question why I just don't get as excited about flying LH F, or even EK F anymore. In fact, for an upcoming trip, I decided to book EK J, and was wondering why. Even valuing Alaska points at a penny a point, I am not sure I want to spend 300K for F. Is that because EK J on the 380 is pretty good anyhow??? I think partly it is the excitement of the new products that were announce over the past 10 years or so. At first it was flat beds, then it was lounges with fine champagne, then it was Porsche car service, then it was showers, then it was apartments. But now that I have done that I enjoy it, but personally I just don't get so excited as I used to. So now when I look at how much I am spending to go somewhere, and with the increased award charts, I am choosing to fly J and just get on board and sleep so that I can wake up and explore the destination with more energy and enjoyment. I enjoy the other perks of first class amenities, but for the added expense they just don't do it for me anymore.

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Wes Guest

Travel, even at the luxury end, is intrinsically stressful on the body and mind. I'm an aviation geek and frequent leisure traveler, but I am increasingly finding myself just as happy (perhaps even happier) to spend downtime at home, just relaxing. The very notion if not traveling at any possible time was abhorrent to me only six months ago.

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