My Worst Uber Experience: Don’t Leave Your Phone Behind

In this post my friend Andrew B will share his recent experience with losing something in an Uber. As some of you may recall, Andrew won an OMAAT contest several years back, and we’ve been friends ever since. Earlier in the year he took Qatar Airways A380 first class and Megabus on the same trip, and shared his thoughts here (it’s not often you get such contrast)!

I’m a big fan of Uber, though have also had my fair share of negative experiences. However, I’ve never left anything behind in an Uber, so I found the resolution (or lack thereof) to be quite interesting.


Like Ben, I’ve generally had great experiences with Uber. I take them several times a week, and almost all of my rides have been good.

Recently I had a terrible Uber experience. A friend requested an Uber to take us to dinner, and the second the ride ended and the driver pulled away, I realized my phone had fallen out of my pocket and was still in the car.

I called the driver right away from within the Uber app. He couldn’t have been more than 1,000 feet away at that point. He gave me his cell phone number and told me to call him back in a half an hour. When I called him back, he didn’t answer. He didn’t answer my texts either.

After several unanswered texts and calls offering to meet him anywhere that’s convenient for him (as well as an email to Uber), the following morning I offered him $50 cash to return my phone. Immediately he texted back and said “on my way.” I was in a big rush because I was leaving LA early that afternoon. He did return my phone, but the experience left me with a terrible taste in my mouth.

I e-mailed Uber support again. I told them that I’d recovered my phone, but only after bribing the driver. I was hoping Uber would tell me they’d talk to the driver.

Uber’s response was:

To respect the privacy of all users, our Privacy Policy restricts us from making any changes to or discussing an Uber account without the account holder’s consent. To expedite this request, cc the account holder and have him or her respond to confirm and we’ll take it from here. Alternatively, have the account holder write in on a separate thread and we’ll be happy to assist directly.

So, I did that. The account holder (my friend) then responded and said, “Please let me know if you need further details. You have my authorization to deal with Andrew directly.” He included a screen shot showing the details of the ride.

Uber didn’t respond to either of us, so a couple days later I requested an update. They said they would need the account holder to write in (he already had)! They also kept referencing how they want to help me recover my lost item.

I sent two more emails explaining that I’d already recovered the item and that my friend had already written in. Each time, unbelievably, Uber continued to ask me to have the friend write in so that they could help me recover my lost item.

This whole experience made me wonder: if you ride along in an Uber requested by your friend and something bad happens, what protections do you have? At this point, I’m not sure if I have a good answer to that question.

I’m at a loss for what to do, and I guess I might as well just give up. All I really wanted was for them to tell me they’d spoken with the driver to explain that holding customers’ property for ransom was not company policy. Now I’m just upset by the fact that their responses indicate that they didn’t even read my e-mails.

What would you guys do: give up and move on with your life, or keep pursuing this issue?

If you’d like to read the lengthy exchange between me and Uber, I’ve included it below.

Me:

Last night (8/21) around 6:45 pm Pacific time a friend ([friend’s name]) ordered an Uber (a Mercedes S-class), and I left my phone in it. I realized it as soon as I stepped out but the driver drove off quickly. Within a minute I called him, and he said to call him back in a half hour! I did, and I texted him, and he hasn’t been responsive. I am leaving LA in a couple hours and still do not have my phone. I’ve offered to meet him anywhere. The driver’s phone number is xxx-xxx-xxxx. Please help!

Uber:

Sorry to hear about your phone, Andrew. We’re happy to help. To respect the privacy of all users, our Privacy Policy restricts us from making any changes to or discussing an Uber account without the account holder’s consent. To expedite this request, cc the account holder and have him or her respond to confirm and we’ll take it from here. Alternatively, have the account holder write in on a separate thread and we’ll be happy to assist directly. If you are the account holder, just write in from the email address associated with your account and we’ll be able to help right away. Hope to hear from you soon.

Me:

Thanks for your response. cc’d here is [friend], who requested the Uber. I was able to recover my phone, but only after bribing the driver to bring it back to me. Here is a rough timeline of what happened starting 8/21:

7:20 pm: Driver drops us off at restaurant in LA

7:21 pm: I realize I left my phone in the car

7:22 pm: I call the driver using your system. He says he sees the phone in his car but I should call him back in a half hour.

7:55 pm: I call back, no response.

8-10 pm: I text the driver several times and don’t receive a response. I explain that I am flying home (to DC) tomorrow. I offer to meet him anywhere that’s convenient for him.

10:30 pm: Driver texts that he is on his way to drop off the phone. Tracking my iPhone shows he is a 10-minute drive away.

11:30 pm: Driver is now an hour away according to tracking.

1:40 am (8/22): Driver texts to ask if I am still in Hollywood. 7-9 am: I text driver several times to explain that my flight leaves soon and plead with him to meet me somewhere to recover my phone.

9:45 am: I text driver to say that I will pay him $50 to meet me and return my phone.

9:48 am: Driver texts that he is on his way. 10:50 am: I finally get my phone back and pay him the $50. I’ve been an Uber customer for years (you can look up my account: [account info]) and have had almost uniformly great experiences. This was terrible. I feel as if my phone was held hostage, and only when I offered a bribe was I given prompt service. I would have paid him anyway upon getting the phone back, but the fact that I had to offer was absurd.

I hope Uber will explain to this driver that the expectation is that lost items are returned promptly and that they should not resort to extortion. The fact that I called the driver within two minutes of him dropping me off and he was unable to deliver my phone at that time is still very puzzling to me. The additional fact that it took 50 bucks to get it back just in time for me to rush to the airport is not ok. You guys are awesome, but I don’t think this driver has represented your brand well in this situation.

Uber:

Thank you for bringing this to our attention, Andrew. This experience sounds completely unacceptable and not what we expect from any of our partner drivers. As Uber is a cashless service. In order for us to properly resolve this for you, kindly provide us the date/time of the trip and name of the driver so we can able to pull up the trip and take a closer look into it. Thank you so much for your patience while we work on resolving this for you. Hope to hear back from you soon.

Me:

I’m ccing [friend’s name] here, who requested the ride. [friend’s name], can you provide the details from your trip history? Uber: Thanks for keeping in touch, Andrew. For us to properly resolve this, we will be needing you to contact us using the associated email address that you use to order the Uber ride. To respect the privacy of all users, our Privacy Policy restricts us from accessing and providing information of the account.

My Friend:

Please let me know if you need further details. You have my authorization to deal with Andrew directly. [Screen shot showing trip on 8/21 at 6:47 pm, with driver named Daniel]

Uber:

We completely understand where you’re coming from, Andrew. Your friend needs to be the one to reach us regarding this concern. That is for us to locate the drivers account and take necessary actions to help you retrieve your item. We hope you understand us on our end.

Me:

Hi there, [the friend] did respond and gave you authorization to access his account and deal with me directly. Any update on this? Just to clarify, as I said, I did receive my lost item — just very dismayed that it occurred only AFTER I had to bribe the driver.

Uber:

We’re sorry to hear that you’ve had such a bad experience with your recent Uber ride, Andrew. We’ll always do whatever we can to help, but to protect your account’s security, could you please have the account holder write in from the e-mail address associated with your Uber account? Just letting us know the email address won’t be enough as we do need to confirm the account holder. Let us know if you have any other concerns.

Me:

He HAS written in, as I’ve said several times! I don’t understand what the problem is! Per the instructions in your very first email, he responded on 8/23 at 10:37 pm Eastern. His email was sent from [email address] to [email protected]. I’m really not sure why I’ve had to write the same email so many times. Would it be easier for someone to call me? I’m at xxx-xxx-xxxx. Below is a screen shot of the beginning of his email.

Uber:

I’m so sorry to hear about the trouble here Andrew. I understand how frustrated you are at this point in time. However, for us to be able to properly assist you in retrieving your lost phone. We need the person who requested for the trip to directly communicate with us through email. You mentioned that he already has reached out. So I strongly suggest that you ask him to check on Uber’s reply to his email. As we do take matters like this seriously and make sure that we address them with utmost priority. I’m sure somebody has responded to your friend with instruction on how to go about reaching the driver and getting assistance from us for the return of your item.

[I checked with the friend. Nobody responded to him.]

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Tom Guest

Personally whenever I find ANY item in my car, if I don’t specifically remember the person being nice it goes in the river or out the window. I dont owe you anything and I laugh at your stupidity.

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Rupam Guest

Why would a driver waste his gas money to return your loat item? Just don't forget your phone if you love it that much. Other wise pay driver more than meager 20$ to get your item back. Your item is your responsibility.

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Prakash Guest

same thing happened to me when a uber driver called Randy dropped me in Boston airport. I realized i dropped phone in car as soon as i entered the airport door which is not even 50 foot and driver has left by then. i have chated at least 20 times with Uber last 1 day and they say they could not reach out to driver and they have texted my wifes number. This is 1100 iphone 14 pro max i bought just a month back. I am amazed a driver can steal and get away with no issues. do not use Uber if possible. their customer support is like robots and it sucks and if you end up with an a hole driver like me then forget your phone and your hard earned money.

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Melissa Carrasco Guest

I have been an Uber customer since it was introduced and had small mishaps here n there but nothing any human being liable to give the driver a bad rating n even worse tip unless they’re planning on going rouge on the day I leave my phone in this half wit Uber Drivers car. That being said anyone who has any knowledge of cellular phones and the reality that drivers who do not agree to return my brand new iPhone 12 mini valued at 1000 TO ME ONLY should know MY phone service provider and most service providers looking to gain customers interest by offering a security feature making service to lost (in my case stolen) devices. I’m going to go on a limb and guess Uber driver’s have cellular phone service with similar security features that automatically make a lost or stollen phone useless to anyone but the actual user being me. However my phone that I would describe as lost in the Uber in the beginning considering the driver gave me a time he would drop it off n I offered an extra 50.00 for his troubles never showed up and actually deleted his Uber Driver status as if he hit the lottery by stealing my useless phone to anyone inside the US. I’m actuality the $50.00 I offered would have been the closest he would have come to any financial gain since my carrier makes this phone completely useless to anyone besides myself. Anyway I never got the phone back and I ship items internationally frequently and shipping alone is beyond 50.00 for the driver to send to someone in a third world country (no offense) could afford a service plan to this phone shld be able to afford to purchase an identical phone and service minus the Uber driver feeling necessary to jump ship n quit his job for pretty much trading apples for oranges for something I’m pretty confident he got next to nothing contacted Uber on their helpless line being as tho they have done anything but be helpful in any situation I ever had w them. I had 1 more payment left on that phone totaling $1,000 for iPhone XR 256gb. I’m closing I was BEAT FOR A PHONE I WAS 15.00 away from calling my own since it wld have been paid off. I did have the money for the next bill and unfortunately I had just lost my job n had to ask MY MOTHER AT 41 years old to please allow me to borrow money for the iPhone 12 mini. NOW about a month later I once again left my phone in the Uber (the second time I have done this since Uber was a thing) and my driver couldn’t have been any nicer an accommodating. He returned my phone while keeping in contact w me every few hours to make sure I wasn’t freaking out n I gave him $50 when he dropped off my phone not but 4 hours later. I would have gladly gave him 100 had I not lost my job but really u win some n sometimes u get stuck w losers who are the real losers in the end. Oh not to Mention the phone thief did attempt to breach the security features n apple alerted me n shot that down haha!! N if he did gain access It was perfect timing cuz my finances were non existent n my credit was on the expressway to where good credit goes to die.

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Nathan Guest

I recently was in a similar situation, and I kept fighting back. I was able to keep going since I was not working, had savings to pay bills, no kids, recently divorced. If you have a family, or anything that I did not, I totally understand how most people would just move on with their life. But I hear you, its a f*cking (i used a lower case L) JOKE, almost as if these companies do not truly care for their customers, most of them do not even have a phone number anymore to call and f they do its not to a live rep. I truly sorry to hear of your sit.

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