Typical Marriott: “We’re Looking A Little Tight On Suites,” Hands Me Bonvoy Nuts

Of course I’m not in any way surprised by this experience. Instead, I think it so perfectly sums up the typical Marriott elite experience within the United States, in a nutshell.

Predictable, frustrating Marriott check-in experience

Let me start by saying that I don’t actually stay at hotels within the United States very often. While I frequently travel internationally with the desire to stay at certain hotels, I just find hospitality in the United States to be non-existent with so many brands, and I don’t enjoy overpaying, getting nickel-and-dimed, and honestly, just being frustrated by the lack of customer service.

But sometimes I actually have to stay somewhere, which brings me to a stay I had at a Marriott recently (the exact hotel doesn’t even matter, because this is just sort of what I’ve come to expect).

I have Marriott Bonvoy Ambassador status, which is rather hard to earn. Prior to check-in at this Marriott, I saw that I was pre-upgraded to a room with a view, which retails for $9 per night more than the room I booked. This is a hotel with a bunch of room categories, and there were over a dozen higher room categories available and still for sale. The hotel was also nowhere close to full, best I could tell.

Admittedly I don’t necessarily expect very much from Marriott’s upgrade policy, and also realize there are lots of elite members. So I don’t even usually bother asking about upgrades at check-in, especially when I’m staying alone, and don’t really care much about the room.

However, as I arrived at check-in, I saw that the front desk agent was actually training someone else (who was standing behind him), and was explaining all the processes to him. So I figured in the name of giving him a good training opportunity, I’d ask about an upgrade. Let me say upfront that I wasn’t a fan of the guy’s attitude, and he came across as sort of casual and dismissive, in an obnoxious way (maybe that’s just my perception, though). Here’s how the brief conversation went:

Him: “Thanks for being an Ambassador member, we’ve upgraded you to a partial view room.”
Me: “Thank you! Do you by any chance have any suites or better rooms available for an upgrade?”
Him: “Let me see what I can do…” *literally two seconds later, so obviously didn’t actually look* “we’re looking a little tight on suites, here’s a thank you for your loyalty.”

He handed me a bag of honey roasted peanuts with a Marriott Bonvoy sticker on them. Bonvoy!

I’m so happy I spent $23,000 for Ambassador status!

I also couldn’t help but chuckle about how he explained the daily destination fee. “So you’re gonna pay $35 per day, and you’re going to get $18 in credits to use in the restaurant for that.” What a deal!

Many Marriotts don’t even pretend to try with upgrades

The above was my first time in a long time actually asking about upgrades at a Marriott property in the United States. That’s because:

  • I’m not looking to get into some argument that involves the front office manager, etc.
  • Unless you’re willing to argue (which I’m not), just casually inquiring about upgrades is unlikely to get you anywhere
  • I also recognize how many elite members there are, and that it’s hard for hotels to manage expectations

So a couple of things stand out about this experience. First of all, I know Marriott recently rolled out a new front desk AI tool that’s supposed to assign elite upgrades. While I didn’t think it would be the case, I quietly hoped that maybe automating this process would actually lead to improvements. But nope, I’m not actually finding that’s the case, and that clearly shows that the system isn’t being programmed to deliver on providing the best possible upgrades.

Second of all, as much as I wish it were otherwise, I’ve gotta say, I’ve found very little difference in terms of upgrades for being an Ambassador member vs. being a Platinum or Titanium member. Most of my good upgrades have been at properties where I used a Nightly Upgrade Award (NUA), and those are tied to Choice Benefits, and not status. But for most of my stays, I’ve found upgrades to be really marginal. My Ambassador is absolutely awesome, but it’s not like he’s on-property with me, so…

I’m not actually surprised any of this is the case, though it’s disappointing how little Marriott tries to do to differentiate Ambassador status, despite the much higher qualification requirements. But really I’m just the moron for earning the status, and staying on the hamster wheel…

So many Marriotts don’t even try, unsurprisingly

Bottom line

In an experience that should surprise no one, Marriott properties (particularly in the United States) are pretty lousy about trying to upgrade elite members. I rarely stay at Marriotts in the United States, and my recent stay reminded me of why.

As an Ambassador member, I was upgraded to a room with a partial view, which retails for $9 more than the room I booked. When I asked about a further upgrade, I was told they’re “looking a little tight on suites,” and was instead given a bag of nuts. The joys of Bonvoy!

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Gareth Guest

I tend to float around Titanium and mostly operate around MEA and SEA and lete tell you, I absolutely cringe when I think I have to travel to the US. I refuse to fly abUS carrier and doesn't matter if I already spent almost $20k that year with Marriott I know I'll get the middle finger when it comes to any reward recognition when checking in. I'm grateful most of my travels take me places that are not in the US because it's a whole different experience with status.

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Steve M. Guest

I have been an ambassador status for 6 years, I completely agree with the writer, the Marriott and it's properties don't care!!! I think I've been upgraded ....hmm NEVER!!! Unless I've used my upgrade rewards. I stay about 200 nights a year for the last 23 years and having the lifetime titanium status, I've truly thought about trying Hilton, as I would reach their Diamond status in no time! Not that they would care,$40,000 a year to be treated like crap, I'm willing to take a chance. I hope there are some members that get treated better!

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Carol Robles Guest

I’m on the hamster wheel…only a Platinum, but I actively book and stay at Marriotts as much as I can domestically and then use the points/status to upgrade our room in Europe. Upgrading in the states is frustrating and not typically available for my level. Questioning now if it’s all worth it but I’ve spent so much time and $$ consistently to get here and maintain…seems sad to let it go.

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Joshua Guest

Your experience further validates my own experiences and observations. While I have not earned the statuses you have, the benefits I have reaped are not really worth it. In fact, I "broke up" with IHG this year after having platinum status since 2021 because, for the third time since 2022, they failed to honor a promotion they emailed me until I spent my time talking to management (in 2023 I used a confirmable suite upgrade a couple weeks before my stay, but corporate didn't tell the property and they sold their last suite shortly before I arrived. Turns out, they cannot "restore" those upgrades after they've been "used"). I still have platinum status at Marriott and Gold at Hilton. None of the statuses have gotten me more than a negligible "upgrade", a slightly late check out, or a few more points that aren't actually worth much. Same with my airline status. A few years ago on my very FIRST flight with Delta Silver Medallion status I was actually DOWNGRADED from first class. While they refunded the difference between the fares, I had to spend my time to get it. I recently vowed to be no more loyal to a company than they are to me. I have found that the benefits of having the staff remember me from a previous visit is far greater than having status in their network. The best was a hotel where I stayed for work in Alberta. One of the front desk staff was giving me dinner recommendations and I noticed their stomach growling. I brought them back a plate. The next time I was there I got upgraded to a suite despite not being a rewards member.

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CRS- Guest

What’s wrong? Not enough people to kiss your butt. America is known for having better customer service than much of the world. Contradiction in FACTS! I guess if you aren’t satisfied with the hotel it must be an American thing. The grass always looks greener on the other side. Watch videos of Europeans visiting the U.S. and you will see repeatedly that they Love the customer service in the States.

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