Why you SHOULDN’T stay at luxury hotels and fly first class…

In a recent installment of my UAE trip report I wrote a review of the InterContinental Abu Dhabi, which can be found here. Reader ORD-TGU left the following comment:

I am afraid that too much exposure to premium properties has you desensitized and numb! You state “On the whole I had a pleasant stay”. pleasant? Just by looking at those pictures I would be jumping up and down in bliss, it looks outstanding!
I hope all my vacations I could stay in these kind of properties! The lounge food selection looks great!

I invite you to a couple of nights at a motel 6 by the highway and breakfast on mystery meat so you can redefine “pleasant”

All in good spirit!

You know what the sad thing is, from my perspective? ORD-TGU is absolutely right, and I know it.

As I wrote the review of the InterContinental Abu Dhabi I tried to be as positive as I could. After all I got a suite with free minibar, access to a pretty nice club lounge, etc. I had a pleasant stay, but I can’t bring myself to say more… only because as a relative matter it wasn’t that special.

And this is the one part of my “hobby” that drives me nuts. Even if I don’t come across that way sometimes, I’m incredibly thankful for the trips I’m able to take and the fact that I’m able to do what I’m passionate about every day. At the same time, it drives me nuts that I can’t really get all that excited about flying business class anymore, or staying in a four star hotel. I remember how excited I used to get when I’d be able to fly, even if it was in a middle seat in coach.

But at the same time, I don’t want this blog to come across as if it’s written by a 12 year old girl that just won a day with Justin Bieber. Otherwise every review would read “ZOMG IT WAS AWESOME!” and I doubt that would help anyone out or be interesting to read.

When I fly international first class I always pinch myself, thinking about how I’m flying it for pennies on the dollar. At the same time, I try to be a bit critical and view my experience as if I paid full price. Why? Because if I didn’t, all of my trip reports would read exactly the same — “guys, I got on this airplane, and you won’t believe it… I HAD MY OWN BED! AND THEY FED ME REAL FOOD!” So for me it’s the little things that separate a great hotel stay or flight from a mediocre one.

But back to the InterContinental Abu Dhabi. The sad thing is how jaded I’ve become. Not to play the victim card here, but I did stay at three Aman resorts in India, which no doubt have me jaded for life.

I mean, at the Amanbagh in India we had five people (including the GM) wave us goodbye, not to mention we received a departure gift and there was a departure ceremony just for us.

At the Aman-i-Khas hotel we had eight people tell us goodbye, including both of the GMs.

After consistently receiving that level of personalized service, how can you really be wowed by anything else?

Anyway, I’m not sure what exactly my point is, but admitting there’s a problem is the first step to recovery, right? My next vacation will need to be at a Motel 6, I guess.

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Jack New Member

Ben, how did you stay at the Aman Resorts with points? Their properties all look incredible but I'm not aware of any way to book a stay there without paying full price–or is that what you did?

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Faith Case Guest

Ben you write a great blog hence your following. I think the reader comment is from jealously. I love hearing about all your adventures. I think we are all at different places in life and can learn from each other. I don't believe you have children but if you do someday your hotel redemption strategy might change a bit. For me I save those luxury hotel stays for me & the hubby. I love to stretch the points out for vacations with the kids. They don't care and we hardly spend anytime at the hotel. Just really just a crash pad. So I think you should enjoy the luxury stays since you can afford it. Why in the world would you want to stay at Motel 6. Sounds crazy to me!!

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steve64 Guest

Love your blog ... keep it up !! I'm one of the folks that believe the journey is half the trip. As cranking it down a notch or so to keep things in perspective, didn't you recently fly/review Southwest :)

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sfobuddy Guest

For me the big difference is this - Did I 'earn' the spot up front or in this room or did I somehow 'cheat' to get up there. I'm as jaded as you when it comes to 'blowing me away' and throughout the past year I found that I viewed trips I 'pay' for very differently than the trips I don't. My expectations for service, quality and value in which I'm shelling out serious coin are far different from my expectations of experiences I'm having from shelling out serious points/miles. This may fly in the face of what all of these travel bloggers are writing about, but in the end when I use my own money I EXPECT to be blown away. When I use points I realize how lucky am I to have this experience when so many others will NEVER be in the same place as I - regardless of how may credit card offers they complete.

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InsaneTravel Guest

@Reader, I must be reading a different blog than you are. I don't see Lucky as arrogant. He mentions constantly that he is "blessed" or "Lucky" that he could do this. He is passionate about his hobby, in fact he turned it into a Career. and @PanAm I appreciate that you would have different vacation patterns than Lucky, but a lot of us (based on the RTW threads) love the journey more than the destination. Perhaps the type of reviews you are looking for could be found on Tripadvisor.com and Tripwolf.com (Which I use all the time to book hotels) I can afford to fly on points but I can't afford to pay full price for 5 Star and I do not have any hotel rewards.

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