Plot Twist: Non-Binary Virgin Atlantic Crew Puts Airline On Blast

This is quite a plot twist. A few days ago Virgin Atlantic was in the news for updating its gender identity policy, giving employees the option to choose the uniform that best represents them. However, now the person who claims to be the main force behind this policy change is “exposing” the airline.

Virgin Atlantic “exposed” for “erasing” non-binary employee

A non-binary (now former) Virgin Atlantic cabin crew named Jaianni took to Facebook to share their disgust with Virgin Atlantic. Essentially Jaianni claims to be the person who pushed for this policy change at the airline, only to find that they were “erased” from the marketing campaign highlighting this policy change.

Let me try to sum up the Facebook post as concisely as possible, because it’s… a lot. Here we go:

  • Jaianni joined Virgin Atlantic as cabin crew in 2020, and started a conversation with the company about allowing more flexibility with uniforms; at the time, executives at the airline didn’t seem open to the idea
  • Jaianni was made redundant due to the pandemic within weeks of joining the company and that “absolutely destroyed” them, but then returned to the company in 2021, which they were “over the moon about”
  • Once back at the company, Jaianni restarted conversations about a more flexible dress code, and this time the company seemed more receptive; Jaianni was consulted during the process for months, and even gave talks on how the company can be more inclusive
  • Jaianni claims they were “the person to start this huge change,” and then after months it was confirmed there would be an ad campaign, and they were told that they “would be a major part of this campaign, as [they] had started the whole process off”
  • The commercial was filmed over a 12+ hour day, and those that worked for the airline got “offered a stupid payment of 150 pound when the Influencers get paid over 1k minimum”
  • Jaianni’s problem is that they “started this whole process for a company to take [their] idea and CAPITALISE on it when they don’t actually authentically care about there (sic) staff and [their] background of what non binary means”
  • Long story short, they spent all day filming, and Jaianni was featured as “a massive part” of the campaign during that time; however, when the ad campaign came out, Jaianni wasn’t featured in any way
  • Jaianni feels they were used “as a show pony for the company” and that the company was “not even recognising [them] or even worse [their] trauma and hurt from [their] Entire life which led to [them] fighting for this change”
  • Jaianni feels they were “ERASED from the commercial”

Jaianni finishes the Facebook post with the following:

“YOU ERASED ALL MY HARD WORK THAT I PUT IN FOR YOU TO GAIN ON YOUR CAPITALISM. YOU DO NOT GET TO DISREGARD WHO I AM, I AM A HUMAN BEING, I FOUGHT FOR THIS CHANGE, I DEVOTED MY TIME AT THE COMPANY FOR THIS CHANGE, I FOUGHT FOR AN EASIER LIFE FOR MY YOUNGER BROTHERS AND SISTERS. YOU HAVE BROKEN ME AND DAMAGED ME MORE THAN YOU EVEN KNOW AND NOBODY GETS TO DO THAT. This is my life and my communities life’s, let’s not forget though you’ll never take away the fact I was the one to start this change and there will always be evidence and proof of that won’t there? Yes is the answer to that if you was wondering. THIS IS BECAUSE OF ME, THIS WAS MY FIGHT, THIS IS MY SUCCESS.”

While the exact details surrounding Jaianni’s resignation aren’t known, it would appear that they no longer work for Virgin Atlantic.

For context, here’s the 30-second ad from Virgin Atlantic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-haq1V-xJo

My take on this Virgin Atlantic situation

First of all, it’s important to acknowledge that Jaianni obviously feels very hurt, and that’s clear in the writing. That’s something most of us probably won’t be able to fully relate to. Nobody wants to feel erased or forgotten, and that’s especially true of someone belonging to a marginalized community.

That being said, I can’t help but feel like the German phrase “Das Gegenteil von gut ist nicht böse, sondern gut gemeint” applies here (it roughly translates “the opposite of good isn’t bad, but rather well intentioned”). Why?

  • While it’s entirely possible that Jaianni was the one who championed non-binary issues at the airline (we don’t know how many others may have expressed similar concerns), Virgin Atlantic has been progressive with LGBTQ+ issues since long before 2020
  • I can understand that Jaianni feels frustrated about not being featured in the ad, though unfortunately this is all too often the reality of these kinds of projects; they film for 12 hours, and then have to condense it down to 30 seconds
  • Shouldn’t a non-binary person be happy that Virgin Atlantic is trying to “capitalize” on championing progressive policies for non-binary employees? Because the alternative would be not doing that…
  • Even if Jaianni wasn’t featured in the ad, surely they can appreciate that Virgin Atlantic did highlight many non-binary employees, which is something that very few airlines are doing; that kind of visibility should be good for the community

I get Jaianni’s frustration. Maybe Virgin Atlantic should have communicated more proactively about Jaianni not being featured in the ad, so that it didn’t come as such a surprise when it was released. That’s especially true if it was promised that they’d be a major part of it. But I still find the concept of “exposing” Virgin Atlantic here to be a bit much, for what should ultimately amount to great progress for the non-binary community.

Bottom line

A (now former) Virgin Atlantic cabin crew member who allegedly pushed the airline to introduce more progressive policies for non-binary employees is now “exposing” the airline, claiming that they were “erased,” and have never been so hurt in their life.

It sucks that this is how this situation unfolded, given that Virgin Atlantic is basically in a league of its own when it comes to how progressive it is.

What do you make of this former Virgin Atlantic cabin crew’s take?

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Cathy Guest

Another example of the utter self absorption of this generation. Now we’re letting go of basic grammar - “their” is plural. This guy is singular. God help us. And no, I’m not anti LGBT. I voted yes for gay marriage, yes for basic rights like health care, shared property, etc. This is total nonsense.

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Brian P Guest

I just wish virgin would get back to being a commercial airline again, and not just a massive PR box ticking company.

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Craig K Guest

I am Virgin crew and knew this individual who (re)started training in February. I will start by saying that these are my personal opinions only and none of this has been confirmed by VS or BA management. This individual used to fly for BA prior to VS and would make a big deal of telling the story of how he was pulled into an office at BA and told he didn't 'fit in there'. As big and competitive as the airline industry is, crew bonds and quite close. Everyone at VS knows someone that flies for BA and vice versa. When I asked a quite senior friend that flies for BA about this story they confirmed it was absolute rubbish. That BA would be destroyed at an employee tribunal for sacking someone with gender identification issues and instead this individual went sick long term....until he obviously got the job with Virgin. At Virgin the individual immediately got the reputation of being cocky and difficult. And...being on sick leave constantly. VS obviously manage sickness and within a six month probationary period it just isn't a good idea to be off sick all the time. I don't know what the deal is now - whether they are still off sick or have left the company or haven't had their probation renewed. What I will say, is that some of the individuals you see in the ad are amongst the most professional crew you will ever meet - particularly 'Jamie'. Probably the most amazing crew member I have every flown with.

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Louise Guest

The advert put me off flying with Virgin, too woke now.

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Noah Bowie Guest

It does feel a little bit like they were expecting to be part of this ad campaign and were rightfully devastated to find themselves not featuring as part of it despite giving up their hard earned time to film this ad campaign. It's a sad thing for them and I do feel bad for them because it is very unfortunate when you work on something only to not be credited as part of it. That being said. They achieved their goal of making Virgin Atlantic far more inclusive of non binary people than any other airline and many other companies. So instead of calling out the airline for not including them in the ad campaign. They should have taken a step back to realise that what they've done is worth far more than any 1 second cameo in a 30 second ad that Michelle Visage barely featured in. What they have done in the company is truly brilliant for the rights of all non binary people but this response just leaves a sour taste in the mouth for what is a truly good thing

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