Creepy or friendly? I can’t decide…

I can’t decide whether to file this in the “wow, he’s friendly” category or “wow, he’s creepy” category. I arrived at the Crowne Plaza London Heathrow a couple of hours ago and was upgraded to a room on the club floor. As soon as I got to the club level I spent a few seconds looking at the sign with room numbers to figure out in which direction my room was.

In that brief period, an older gentleman dressed in gym clothes (who looked like he was going to go down the elevator, though stopped) starts a conversation with me. “Hi, where are you from?” Eh, fine I’ll play along. “Germany… and the US.” When I’m outside of the US, “Germany” is my standard answer (for obvious reasons), though it occurred to me he was British, so saying I was just German would only lead to more questions, since he could probably tell by my accent that I’m not just German.

“Oh, so you’re coming from Germany and going to the US?” he asked. “No, I’m coming from Doha and heading to New York,” I responded. “How long are you staying at the hotel for?” I responded that I was just staying a night. Then he asked “what room are you in?” Uhhh….

I changed the subject, and he ended by asking if I had access to the club, offering to guest me in. I said I had access, and he said “well see you there.”

For the record, this wasn’t the guy that wrote me my Wi-Fi code…

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Andrew Guest

@ chasgoose, agree, though steve's comments aren't "a bit" homophobic. He wrote: "A man has no business hitting on another MAN period. Gross." It's no different to writing things like: "A black man has no business hitting on a white man period. Gross" Totally unacceptable. Steve - GROW UP.

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Simon Gold

The one you pass up, is the one you never get ;)

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chasgoose Gold

@Carsonheim: I totally agree. Yes it's no fun getting cruised/hit on by someone that you aren't sexually attracted to, but the tone of some of these comments is a bit homophobic. Would it be quite as creepy if it were a woman hitting on Lucky or if Lucky were a woman? For a lot of commenters on here I think not and that's not right. A lot of the "gross" factor has nothing to do with Lucky being hit on and has everything to do with the gender of the person hitting on him. If you ask me, its coming from a pretty ugly place.

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PaulH Guest

I'm sorry that a guest of ours made you feel uncomfortable. Hopefully you enjoyed the rest of your stay. Of course, if you had chosen to mention this incident to one of our staff we would have kept an eye on the gentleman in question. Paul Reservations Manager - Crowne Plaza London Heathrow

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IndyDavid New Member

I think the operative cliché here is the lottery's: You can't win if you don't play. This guy must have a >0% success rate, so why not keep trying. It's like the upgrade flirt -- you might end up hurtling through the night in the galley of a darkened Fokker, but I digress.

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