One Of My Biggest Uber Driver Annoyances

I take Uber on a daily basis, and really appreciate the service. While there are some horrible drivers in the system, for the most part I’ve found Uber drivers to be exceptional, and so much better than what was available in the taxi industry before.

I’ve read all kinds of stuff on the internet about “pet peeves” that drivers have about passengers, most of which seem warranted. As a passenger I have one slightly unusual annoyance that I have to get off my chest.

Let me start by saying that I do everything I can to be respectful of Uber drivers — I’m always polite, I almost never talk on my phone in a car (and when I do, I ask the driver if it’s okay and keep it very short), etc.

But what is it with some Uber drivers getting involved in passengers’ conversations? Don’t get me wrong, I can imagine that sometimes Uber drivers have to smirk or laugh at something being said, as I’m sure they hear some crazy stuff, and don’t fault them for that. But every so often I get an Uber driver who just jumps into every conversation.

For example, Ford and I are in South Beach right now, and last night called an Uber to dinner. Even though the ride was just a few minutes, the driver managed to get involved in our conversations three times, before we learned to just be quiet. Not only that, but just about everything he said was inaccurate.

I asked Ford what time our reservation was at the restaurant we were going to, and he said 7PM. The driver jumped in, “oh, I don’t know if they’ll take your reservation, I’ve heard they’re really strict if you’re late.” Our scheduled arrival time was 7:02PM — I think we’ll be fine (and we were).

Then I was reading Ford some hilarious texts from a friend who was at a fancy restaurant having a tasting menu, and the driver jumped in and said “are you talking about New Years Eve at Fontainebleau?”

“No?”

“Yeah, Justin Bieber is going to be there and tickets are a minimum of $50,000 per person.”

“Wait, really?”

“Yeah, and they sold thousands of them.”

Of course that sounded way off, so a quick Google search revealed this:

“Ticket prices start at $350 for one (1) general admission ticket, and range up to $50,000 for a stage-side private space for up to 25 guests. All packages include premium open bar from 9 PM until Midnight.”

Thousands of people supposedly paying $50,000 per person is slightly different than the most expensive tickets costing up to $2,000 per person. 😉

A moment later I was telling Ford something about a friend in Dubai, and before I could finish my sentence the Uber driver chimed in “I’ve heard Dubai is amazing.”

After that I learned my lesson, and we just didn’t say anything for the rest of the ride.

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As I said above, I imagine some Uber drivers must get bored, and I have no issues with them occasionally chiming in on something or laughing. But to get involved in every aspect of a conversation is annoying as hell.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation, and if so, how do you handle it?

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stevejon New Member

A lot of the pet peeves drivers mention really come down to basic respect and clear communication things like last-minute cancellations, unclear pick-up spots, or heavy luggage can really throw off a day. As a passenger, making sure you’re ready on time and keeping the car tidy helps everyone have a smoother ride, whether it’s a rideshare or a booked service like sallimoservice. I’ve also noticed drivers appreciate when passengers give honest feedback so they can improve their service. What’s the one thing you wish passengers understood better about ride etiquette?

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Katie Guest

I do understand the annoyance. I was once riding in an Uber with a friend and our driver kept interrupting our conversation to start his own conversations with us. I don't mind talking with my Uber driver, but this guy just kept talking over us while we were clearly having a conversation. I didn't give him a bad rating, as he was friendly and the ride was quick and safe, plus maybe he just needed someone to talk to that day, but it was annoying and I would not want to ride with him again. I worked in the service industry for years and learned to read customers- sometimes people want to make a connection and it's great. Other times, people just want to get their business done quietly, and that's ok too-I don't take it personally. As an aside, I will say that I was once given a bad rating (I previously had 5 stars as a rider on Uber and it went down to a 4.98 after that ride) just because I was exhausted and upset about a personal issue, so I didn't chat much with my driver, despite his attempts, so remember that the rating does go both ways. Overall my message is this- be polite and curious with each other and don't give anyone (rider or driver) a bad rating for something trivial because you don't know what is going on in their lives.

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Festus Guest

Jms, excellent point. And it’s also *my* right to give entitled drivers like you who refuse to shut up one star — as I’m sure many of your riders have done.

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Jms Guest

Why???? Because you're in my new car that I pay for, I paid for the insurance the maintenance, 100% of the fuel costs and my iwn taxes. Essentially you're on my turf. my property. I am not an Uber employee I am a subcontractor so if I feel like asking you a question when I feel like it that is completely normal occasionally, as you're in my space that I am 100% responsible for - even your safety. Also please don't sit in my front seat and not say a word the entire trip it's creepy!!!! Let's face it the people that complain about this sort of thing they usually complain about everything everywhere or they're so narcissistic that they think that someone even talking to them means that they're hitting on them give me a break!

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Mike Collins Guest

I'm on day four as a driver. I used to be Man With A Van in Boston, so driving Uber and Lyft is almost an extension of that without the need to levitate sofas. I attempt to gauge people with pleasantries. Personal questions are awkward. If it's Saturday night, a fair question might be, "headed out for a good time?" If they are, they probably have people waiting for them and they'll be texting, doing their own thing, but they may want to chit-chat a bit. It's an art. "Coming from work?" can be a fair question. Sunday morning, picking someone up from a commercial industrial type building. He was a robot builder printing parts for one of his machines. The key is I'm looking for an opportunity to let someone share something if that's what they want to do. Otherwise, mellow quiet music... I'll greet people by asking, "would you like a white knuckle ride or, or a regular ride?" People with a sense of humor might say... "oh definitely, the white knuckler..." Or I'll explain, "it's a trick question, I try to make every ride a regular ride..." I ended up here googling for some perspective on passengers yakking on their cellphones. As a driver, I feel like I'm providing a service which should be delivered with courtesy and respect. I do hope to receive the same in return. As far as tipping is concerned, I'll never post a sign, ask or expect a tip, but people do tip me, they compliment me on my car, they smile as they exit and I try to do the best I can to provide competent, congenial service.

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