The older I get, the more I get the “young elite” treatment

Back when I first started mileage running at the age of 14, I remember I would always dress up to fly. It was a combination of a couple of factors. For one, flying was “special” to me. More importantly, though, as a young elite (at the time a 14 year old 1K), I wanted to avoid being discriminated against due to my age as much as possible. I had read a countless number of times on FlyerTalk about how poorly young elites are treated, and most of the people weren’t even “young” in my book (they were often 30+). So I would wear khakis, loafers, and usually a sports coat. And you know what? In seven years of being a top tier elite, I could count on a single hand the number of times I was discriminated against for being young.

Oddly, though, the trend has been reversed for me, that the older I get the more I get the “young elite” treatment. The problem is, I just can’t bring myself to actually dress up when I fly anymore. I knew it got bad when I left my mom’s house this morning to head to the airport and she said “where do you think you’re going dressed like that?” as if I was some 14 year old girl sneaking out at 11PM with a short skirt.

And I guess I should thank her, because perhaps a t-shit and sweats isn’t the most appropriate way to fly for 20 hours straight (though it certainly is the most comfortable, and makes for the most enjoyable full body pat down… or not). She convinced me to “dress up,” which nowadays means a t-shirt and shorts. Ah, the joys of being self-employed and working from home.

So I’m sorry for taking the “class” out of “first class,” but then again, there wasn’t all that much to begin with.

But the lesson here is simple. I actually do think people are discriminated against based on age when flying – but typically only when they don’t dress up at all.

I flew American from Chicago to Tampa a week ago, and I was queuing in the first class check-in line. American lets Executive Platinum members check in with international first class, so I got in the line, though I was the only one there. I always wait for the agent to gesture for me to come over, though despite her looking at me, I was ignored. After about a minute I said “are you available to help?” She snapped back “yes, but this is for first class and Executive Platinum members only; main cabin check-in is over there.” As soon as she saw I was in fact an Executive Platinum member she couldn’t have been nicer – “oh Mr. Lucky, we have upgraded you to first class and they’ll be serving dinner on your flight this evening, so I hope you enjoy.”

So that’s my conclusion. If you’re young and dressed business-like, I doubt you get discriminated against. If you’re young and dress like a slob (like me in the meantime), you’re in for a ride.

I’m a mess…

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Alvin | Young Travelers of Hong Kong Diamond

How late am I to the party? "because perhaps a t-shit and sweats"

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Sean Guest

Being only 20, I tend to dress more "casual". Note that that does not mean sloppy at all. And I must say, I have never noticed discrimination in front cabin or in elite lines. Either I play the part of a elite traveler well or they are out to get you...

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aisleorwindow Guest

I have told this story on FT a few times, but it is a perfect "never judge a book by its cover" situation: On a UA ORD-SEA flight in F, my seatmate was a very large guy wearing an old Harley-Davidson t-shirt (stretched over a fairly substantial beer gut), shorts, tennis shoes, and black socks. Turns out he worked for General Electric doing maintenance and repair for the blades of power stations. In other words, this guy literally keeps the lights on in the U.S. He was required to be ready to fly at a moment's notice and was not allowed to ever be more than 2 hours away from a major airport. He always flew paid F, per company policy. I was wearing a suit and tie and was on a <$300 T fare with an upgrade using 500 milers. His fare probably cost AT LEAST 4 times mine. So, really, what DOES an F customer look like? By the way, he was one of the nicest guys I've ever sat next to in F.

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intrepid720 Guest

I have found that much much worse than ageism or clothing-ism in the elite line is baby-ism. I gave birth to my son in April and have flown with him on 7 trips, which amounts to 21 flights. In fact, Baby should qualify 1P this year, by the time he's 8 months old. You wouldn't believe the effort some people go to to DIVE in front of me in the red carpet lane, as if a woman with a stroller couldn't possibly be in the right place when 1K boarding is called. I always laugh when Baby and I stop at first class and watch them continue on into coach. Seriously, why is a chick with a baby automatically not a frequent traveler? And don't get me started about the discrimination from the TSA, even though I'm fast and efficient enough to jump 3 people in the security line when I'm by myself and handling a stroller, car seat, baby, and diaper bag...

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Steve Guest

Lots of travel said: "Wearing a t-shirt and worn jeans is OK in tech heavy Bay Area (I live there), it’s not the norm amongst first class travelers, with the few slobs sticking out as mud." Wearing a t-shirt and jeans is great anywhere, except church. I actually feel bad for the suits who have to wear their clown suits on airplanes because it's definitely not the comfortable way to travel. They either have to wear them for work or they are trying to impress people they don't know which shows me they have a major lack of self esteem. Either way, I always feel bad for them.

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