Should Kids Miss School To Travel?

I’m currently working on our family’s travel plans for the rest of 2016 and have a new challenge to deal with… school schedules.

My oldest daughter is currently in preschool. Thankfully her teacher has a great attitude and uses student travel as a teaching opportunity. So, we send a postcard or email pictures from anywhere we’ve gone and the class gets out the globe to learn more about the destination.

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For the next school year, however, my oldest will start kindergarten and we aren’t sure about her new teacher’s outlook on missing class for travel. Her new school district categorizes travel as an unexcused absence unless the trip is deemed to have “educational value approved by the principal in advance.”

I personally think all travel has educational value. But, we obviously have to wait and see what the school’s standard is.

The “educational value” line reminded me about a story that went viral last year when a father took his kids out of school to see the Boston Marathon.

After returning from the race, he received a form letter from the school indicating the absences would be unexcused:

I understand that your family recently took a family vacation. I want you to be aware that the Abington School District does not recognize family trips as an excused absence, regardless of the activities involved in the trip. The school district is not in the position of overseeing family vacations or evaluating the educational nature of a family trip. The dates that the children were absent were recorded as unexcused. An accumulation of unexcused absences can result in referral to our attendance officer and a subsequent notice of a violation of the compulsory school attendance law.

The father’s well-reasoned reply pointed out all the ways the trip complemented his kids’ classroom education. Among other things, he explained:

In addition our children walked the Freedom Trail, visited the site of the Boston Tea Party, the Boston Massacre and the graves of several signers of the Declaration of Independence.

These are things they WILL learn in school a year or more from now. So in actuality our children are ahead of the game.

They also visited an aquarium, sampled great cuisine and spent many hours of physical activity walking and swimming.

We appreciate the efforts of the wonderful teachers and staff and cherish the education they are receiving at Rydal Elementary School. We truly love our school.

But I wouldn’t hesitate to pull them out of school again for an experience like the one they had this past week.

I’m still figuring out exactly what I’m comfortable with when it comes to my girls missing school.

Limiting our trips to the school schedule means traveling at times where award inventory might not be ideal and competing with other families for the limited space. It’s not impossible. But it’s definitely more challenging. If the concern is just about trips being harder to book, then I’ll be more creative with destinations or routings to make sure they don’t miss school.

If, however, there is a particular event or trip that wouldn’t happen without missing school, I’ll probably pull my girls out of class to have the experience. This all makes me laugh about when the hardest part about leaving town was figuring out who would watch our dogs for us while we were gone.

I’m curious how those of you with kids deal with school schedules and what your philosophy is on missing class.

Do you let your kids miss school for a trip?

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shelley Guest

Our 8 year old twins learn so much from traveling the world.

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Veronica Hastings Guest

I'm a highschool student and there's a florida trip next month my dad really wants me to go on and I've never been anywhere really. I've decided I'm not going, missing school for a trip and then getting super stressed out and struggling to keep even an okay grade doesn't sound like fun or a break. Disney can keep their characters and beautiful scenery, work always comes first.

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ka Guest

Nowadays, every literate person with internet connection seems to think that: a) their opinion is fact, b) the rest of the world needs to hear their opinion. Who cares what these people think? Follow your gut and do what feels right for your family. Your kids are young and the odds are good that they will learn to read and count despite missing a week or two of school. The situation may change when they get older, but you can reevaluate then.

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Sara Guest

When my son was younger we would travel whenever we could. The relationship he built with family out of town was priceless and the experiences we had together are memories that will last a lifetime. Even his 4th grade teacher encouraged travel as there is so much life learning when doing so. We attend a private school in pa so it was wonderful. Fast forward to 6 th grade. I have been VERY diligent about traveling around the school schedule now so that my child has a good attendance record. He was so proud to have only missed 1 day the entire year. We are in the 3rd and last marking period . To my shock when I got his winter report they had him as missing 5 days! I called they looked into it and said that all children who went on the class trip ( that's a requirement) for 4 days were marked as absent. They can do this because they are a private school :/. Well with that response my conclusion is travel to your hearts content. Schools are so backwards these days they will learn more with you then in the classroom ( this coming from a former educator) Just make sure they aren't falling behind in studies or missing too much. Other than that live life! It's far too short my friend

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J Guest

Some of these comments are entertaining, trying to make parents who take their kids out of school for travel, feel selfish, and preventing kids from meeting their obligations? - Really? The rest of the world doesn't run on the same schedule as schools. I have a day job and teach, as does my wife and the kid's have a school schedule, do you think all of these schedules line up with the school? And taking time off to travel is a good thing, just traveling is a good experience no matter how the trip turns out, and taking a break from your normal schedule is rewarding and great way to "recharge". I am also guessing folks who think it is bad never bother to take vacations from their jobs. I agree with Sofian's comment...educational system in America feels like the 3rd Reich ?

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