Earlier, I wrote about how I’m planning a trip to Hong Kong, and am deciding on which hotels to stay at. In passing, I mentioned how the Peninsula Hong Kong strikes me as being a “luxury factory,” with the lobby overflowing with non-hotel guests.
A reader asked for some more commentary on this, and said “I know exactly what you’re talking about, but am wondering more specifically what you think of these places and how it has an effect on which hotels you choose to stay at.”
You’d think that I’m asking myself questions here, because this is a post that has been in my “ideas” queue for a long time, but which I never got around to writing. So I think this is about as good of a time as any. Specifically, I want to talk about hotels with popular food & beverage outlets. As I view it, these are a blessing if well managed, while if not, they’re a curse. Let me explain.
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It’s nice when hotels have “lively” dining outlets
When you think of the factors that contribute to a good luxury hotel stay, there are many things that might come to mind — a well-designed room, flawless service, extensive amenities, and great restaurants and bars.
Hotels want good dining outlets for a variety of reasons. For one, they make money, both with hotel guests and locals. Beyond that, they can elevate the status of a hotel, and certainly make it a lot more well regarded, and that can also translate to higher room rates.
I find that most luxury hotels fall into one of three categories when it comes to popularity of dining outlets:
- Some hotel restaurants and bars gain no traction, lack a vibe, and are typically just occupied by hotel guests, with outsiders not even considering them
- Some hotel restaurants and bars are really popular and well regarded, and have a great mix of customers, between hotel guests and locals
- Some hotel restaurants and bars take on a life of their own, and sort of overpower the hotel, almost turning the hotel into something that feels like an afterthought

Personally, I think that second bullet point above is the ideal situation. It’s nice to be able to stay at a hotel and feel like you’re in the heart of the action, without it being overwhelming. Many hotels (especially in Asia and Europe) actually have destination restaurants and bars that people want to visit.
I also have to say that as an introvert, I don’t necessarily mind hotels that fall into the first bullet point above, but that’s just because it’s usually somewhere I can bring my laptop and work while having a drink or meal. Admittedly that’s not otherwise good for any party, but rather, just for me.

When hotel dining outlets become annoying…
As I see it, there’s a fine line between a hotel having lively food & beverage outlets, and it starting to degrade the (hotel) guest experience.
Let me explain, starting with my Peninsula Hong Kong reference above. The Peninsula Hong Kong is probably the city’s most iconic hotel, even if it’s no longer the best. As a result, all kinds of non-guests just pop into the lobby to take a look, and at some point that becomes overwhelming.
I remember I had afternoon tea there a decade ago, and I was horrified by how the lobby felt like a department store on Black Friday. There was a queue of dozens of people waiting for afternoon tea, and I remember thinking to myself “goodness, I wouldn’t want to stay here.” Of course let me acknowledge I was part of the problem by being there as a non-hotel guest having afternoon tea, and also, things may have changed since then, but that’s my recollection.
I think another issue is that at some hotels with popular food & beverage outlets, the hotels just get outrageously busy in the evenings, you end up in the elevator with a dozen non-guests, drunk people are acting like fools, etc.
I think the Ritz-Carlton NoMad New York is an example of a property that’s right on the edge when it comes to this. The hotel has several Jose Andres venues that are super popular with locals and guests alike, which is great. But the hotel also has a small lobby, and it can get crowded both there and at the elevator banks in the evenings, and I think that starts to detract from the experience.

Furthermore, in my opinion, it’s also important for hotels to actually hold back some reservations for guests, or at least prioritize them. Now, I don’t know what the right formula is, though I know that as a guest, I’m kind of annoyed if I can’t actually get into any of the restaurants or bars at a hotel, because I view that as being part of the experience.
For example, I remember a few years ago I booked a stay at the Tampa EDITION, shortly after it opened. I got in touch with the concierge, only to be told that they don’t have preferential reservations at their venues for guests, and that everything was booked out for the entirety of my planned stay. So if I wanted anything other than breakfast, I could basically just order room service, or hope for the best at the bar. I canceled my stay…
Look, I don’t expect to get into the single best restaurant at 7PM on a Friday night a couple of hours in advance, but I think hotel guests need to be shown some preference, and that right balance needs to be found. Let me give two Paris luxury hotel examples.
The Four Seasons Paris George V has some incredible food & beverage outlets, and they do an excellent job holding back some tables for guests. The hotel has a charming bar, and while there might be a wait for non-hotel guests, they’ll almost always get you something with a minimal wait if you are a guest. I appreciate that.
For that matter, I think Four Seasons is probably the single most consistent hotel brand in being on the same page as me when it comes to doing everything possible to have venues be popular, while still keeping them for hotel guests. I find a similar practice at most Four Seasons properties around the world.

Let me contrast that to the Ritz Paris, which is perhaps the city’s most famous hotel, with the Ritz Bar and Bar Hemingway. These bars are popular with outsiders, but when we stayed there, we had to queue like everyone else to get into the bar, and there didn’t seem to be any priority for hotel guests. It definitely detracts a little bit for the experience.

I don’t want to come across as overly spoiled here, or as having unrealistic expectations. My point is simply to say that some luxury hotels view popular food & beverage outlets as an extension of their (hotel) guest experience, while others almost view them entirely independently.
I always leave with a much more favorable impression of a hotel stay if it falls more in the former category than the latter category. So I also try to plan my hotel stays accordingly, and seek out hotels that I feel offer that level of service.
Bottom line
Good food & beverage outlets can contribute positively to a luxury hotel stay, though I’d argue that not all luxury hotels do an equally good job with this. I appreciate when hotels have these, with two caveats.
First, it’s important that food & beverage outlets don’t detract from the experience for hotel guests too much, in terms of crowding in the lobby, elevators, etc. Second, hotel guests have to be prioritized to some extent with reservations and being seated, or else these venues detract from the experience for hotel guests, rather than adding to it.
What’s your take on bustling hotel food & beverage outlets? Do you like them, and do you have any pet peeves?
Data Point: I'll be staying at the Pen in Chicago next week; it's restaurant week, and the main restaurant there is booked out for what I needed. I called yesterday and gave them a date and a couple of times I wanted, and they said either one was fine.
So whilst I can't speak for the entire chain, for sure the Pen in Chicago either keeps tables held back or makes room for hotel guests, which is a very nice perk.
Regent Taipei does not hold any tables for the hotel guests at any of their restaurants.
“I’m offended by all these non-guests disrupting my afternoon tea” said the non-guest
Agreed that FS (as always) strikes the right balance.
The key is for the food/drinks and service to be comparable to that of the surrounding neighborhood, while making sure the venue is not a destination unto itself to attract people that are not otherwise in the neighborhood.
Funny you mention Tampa EDITION. This is the hotel that sprung immediately to mind and I would definitely put in this category. I had an equally bad experience there for numerous reasons including them prioritising F&B guests over hotel guests. Booked Amex FHR for 1 night in November 2024.
1. When I arrived the lobby was mobbed with people at the bar and throughout the lobby. People drinking before the hockey game at stadium. What...
Funny you mention Tampa EDITION. This is the hotel that sprung immediately to mind and I would definitely put in this category. I had an equally bad experience there for numerous reasons including them prioritising F&B guests over hotel guests. Booked Amex FHR for 1 night in November 2024.
1. When I arrived the lobby was mobbed with people at the bar and throughout the lobby. People drinking before the hockey game at stadium. What seemed to be a high school homecoming celebration. No doorman or other to help through the crowds and find the inconspicuous check in desk.
2. When I got on flight upgrade had been cleared to bayview suite. At check-in informed me that not only had I not been upgraded, I had been downgraded to entry level double bed room.
3. Informed that the rooftop pool, bar and restaurant were all closed from 3pm for a private event (the high school homecoming event!). I could use the JW Marriott pool, but unfortunately that had now been closed due to a fire alarm.
4. Not to worry they were giving me $75 F&B credit in the hotel, together with my $100 FHR credit and $80 breakfast credit for my 1 night stay. But it was Saturday night and all the restaurants were booked except the lobby.
5. My room was right above the entrance so all I heard was the queue for the night club and the amped up sports cars they arrived in at the valet.
Such a shame because was such a nice hotel. But clearly prioritising its F&B venues at the weekend over its hotel guests.
The Ops Manager refused to budge on anything and was dismissal of my complaints. However, the General Manager did respond to my email complaint later in the week and comped the stay.
Because I am a glutton for punishment I stayed again on FHR this past November. Room wasn't ready at 2pm arrival and not until after 6pm. They said it was because they were trying to put me in an upgraded room, but that never materialised! At least no downgrade, but they were refusing guaranteed late checkouts to all FHR guests!
Actually, the reality of the situation is that only points prols are affected by overcrowding in hotel food outlets. Discerning hotel guests take meals in the privacy of their suites, served by a personal butler.
Totally agree with this. Stayed at the Shangri La London (high up with views) a few years back. Couldn’t get a table for lunch as they were packing them in for afternoon tea. Seems to be a common problem in London with everyone wanting afternoon tea at a hotel without even staying there. No space for hotel guests is disappointing.
Heck hotels can't even get your standard room ready by 5PM, you think they can get you a table at 8PM for their hottest venue?
And why the comments suddenly becomes a HK hotel bashing theme.
Like other big cities with high demand locations, there will be wait times.
That said, should hotel guests receive special treatments. No.
Demanding a reservation purely because you're a hotel guest is entitlement.
You don't get preferred...
Heck hotels can't even get your standard room ready by 5PM, you think they can get you a table at 8PM for their hottest venue?
And why the comments suddenly becomes a HK hotel bashing theme.
Like other big cities with high demand locations, there will be wait times.
That said, should hotel guests receive special treatments. No.
Demanding a reservation purely because you're a hotel guest is entitlement.
You don't get preferred reservations in NYC restaurants because you reside in West Village either right?
Be civilized, and wait in line like other people.
Definitely a ‘fake’ Eskimo post …. how refreshing, more than ten words and no racism to be endured.
You had 1 out of 2 chance to guess it right and you still screw it up.
No wonder you cost HM the war. You screwed up the war too. BA doesn't want a knob like you to be their apologist.
Just needs to be busy enough that they invest in quality food. Too not busy and the quality almost always suffers. Too busy and it sucks if you can’t get a table when you want one
I think it depends on the experience and type of service you are looking for. The Penninsula in Hong Kong has very good, classic, traditional service. They do reserve reservations for tea time and for other dining outlets for guests of the hotel being a priority. This said if you can still use the Marriott 85,000 point certificate at the St Regis, I would suggest it. I had a good experience in the recent past at both.
A) First world problems.
B) Agree 100%.
It has been 15 years, but, I too, had tea at the Peninsula even before Instagram was a thing, but one still "had" to do it. The queue of birkenstock wearing tourists waiting in the very prominent queue was a troublesome distraction if not tacky.
Surely they could (and maybe now do) use a reservation system to manage the sheer number of wannabes?
When I staying in late 2019, found the exact same issue as you describe. Mind you, that was peak Instagram era. Plus the place has kind of run its course, as I noted when I returned in early 2024 - service and food quality had gone downhill and the physical facility was tired and totally falling apart. When I walked into the bathroom, I was shocked to see none other than Tom "Hasselhoff" "The D"...
When I staying in late 2019, found the exact same issue as you describe. Mind you, that was peak Instagram era. Plus the place has kind of run its course, as I noted when I returned in early 2024 - service and food quality had gone downhill and the physical facility was tired and totally falling apart. When I walked into the bathroom, I was shocked to see none other than Tom "Hasselhoff" "The D" DoubleDeuce (also known as Tim Dunce) oiling his nipples as they were "very badly chafed". Terrible! This conduct would not, I repeat, NOT, have been accepted back in 2019!
Rod
Get real fake Peninsular guests. Only in your dreams would you be allowed to be an overnight guest there.
I love most Peninsula hotels but will not stay at the HK flagship because it's too much of a circus with non-guests.
I loathe the FS HK and Lung King Heen (both too big/corporate and wildly overrated). The Upper House, on the other hand, is divine.
"Wacky Jacky" is badj at it AGAIN!
Pardon?
Yes, quite!
If we all post as 1990 or ‘Ben’ or ‘Lucky’ then misappropriation of logins might just be curtailed, yes Ben?
Real Aero, both of the above ‘1990’s were not me. How ‘fun’ that you fell for it. Oof.
—O.G. 1990
Actually, 1990, one takes absolutely no notice of the probability of the fake posters misappropriating genuine contributors posts. If Ben, couldn’t care less, clearly others are of the very same mindset, therefore, the value of this site is being diminished daily, yes?
Sorry you had to bad experience in Tampa. The edition in London has a fantastic restaurant and they were able to get us in last minute. It was completed booked but they got us in.
Just throwing that out there so people know it’s property specific and not necessarily brand.
I want a hotel that is quiet. I don't necessarily need an onsite restaurant or bar. I can always do Uber Eats. Like others said it often brings crowds and noise.
George gonna get his Wawa sandwich one way or another…
Your FourSeasons radar is spot on. By deduction, I presume you are staying at the Four Seasons in HKG.....
We checked out of the Ritz-Carlton Shanghai Pudong exactly because of this. Their lobby was overflowing with non-guests. We headed to the JW which we knew was more sane.
Speaking of Shanghai, anyone ever taken that wild ‘tourist tunnel’ under the river? A clown pops out half way through…trippy stuff.
I'll add in another category to your bullet point list - after a recent stay at the Park Hyatt Jakarta (since a few comments on your previous blog mentioned it). It's a great hotel and has fantastic bars and restaurants, clearly popular with both guests and locals. Sounds great... Except the hotel is also a massive conference center (I believe it has 13 different event spaces), and I happened to be there while there were...
I'll add in another category to your bullet point list - after a recent stay at the Park Hyatt Jakarta (since a few comments on your previous blog mentioned it). It's a great hotel and has fantastic bars and restaurants, clearly popular with both guests and locals. Sounds great... Except the hotel is also a massive conference center (I believe it has 13 different event spaces), and I happened to be there while there were a few taking place. I was enjoying the main bar one evening, which has amazing views, live music, and a great atmosphere. Then in came attendees from two different conferences, completely flooding it and killing the vibe. I couldn't even hear the music after they came in.
I'm surprised to hear your experience at the Ritz. That's never been my experience, though Bar Hemingway of course needs quite a bit of notice given its size.
I also hate conference hotels.
Ronald,
In Soviet Russia, conference hotel hate you!
lol wut?
Got’em!
Hey, fake 1990, that was actually pretty good. Respect.
—O.G. 1990.
Very well thought out comment from Uncle "Mary Poppins" Ronnie. That's the best you could do!?!
Ronnie, what is a “Conference Hotel”?
Something which is only present in the U.S.?
Everyone's different, but I use points and miles to book luxury travel I wouldn't pay cash for. So if I book a luxury hotel using points (notably most of the hotels Ben references aren't points properties), I have zero interest in eating dinner at the property's 'luxury' restaurant and paying probably the highest prices in the city. All of these hotels are in cities with hundreds/thousands of restaurants. So with the exception of the hotel...
Everyone's different, but I use points and miles to book luxury travel I wouldn't pay cash for. So if I book a luxury hotel using points (notably most of the hotels Ben references aren't points properties), I have zero interest in eating dinner at the property's 'luxury' restaurant and paying probably the highest prices in the city. All of these hotels are in cities with hundreds/thousands of restaurants. So with the exception of the hotel both having a particularly exceptional restaurant AND holding tables for hotel guests (AND other guests haven't already taken those tables), I don't see much value in great hotel restaurants.
I'm with you. Hotel restaurants are almost always insanely overpriced and a terrible deal. If you care about good food it is usually much better to pick the hotel separately and aim for an area with a good selections of restaurants nearby. This is also one reason I don't place a very high value on things like the FHR property credits. I usually just use them for a few overpriced drinks and eat elsewhere.
There are top restaurants that are associated with the hotels that are absolutely worth trying. Plenitude in Paris at the Cheval Blanc, SingleThread at the SingleThread Inn, Four Seasons Tokyo and SEZANNE and so on. Even points hotels like the Ritz Hong Kong and Tin Lung Heen, or the Waldorf Amsterdam and Spectrum.
I have always preferred hotels without on-site dining. Makes me get out into the great outdoors and really see the place! Travelling and not leaving the hotel is illegal in several jurisdictions.
I recently stayed at The Peninsula in Manila, where only hotel guests are welcome to use the restaurant. Makes a big difference and I was kept up til 3am given intense partying from hoodlums!
Interestingly, this very comment confirmed what people are saying offsite: this account is AI. And should be banned immediately, Ben (of Tipponi).
The incongruent logic is exactly what AI would do while sounding "normal".
Keep this in mind. And know if Ben keeps letting this pass as real, human interaction, you can hit his advertisers.
Also, I know this comment will be censored. So you or s*men-guzzling Buick: You can't hide anymore.
Missy, I doubt the initial 1990 comment about the Peninsula was AI; it’s just a guy who likes to troll (and often uses sexually suggestive names). He’s also done fake versions of Eskimo and a few other regulars. Wait… ‘Missy’ are you… him, too? Oof. The plot thickens…
Fake 1990, I actually stayed at the Conrad in Manilla. Honestly, it was just ok (close to MNL airport for connecting flights); Peking duck at their Chinese restaurant, Blue China, was decent. Probably should’ve stayed at the Peninsula. Eh, next time.
—O.G. 1990