Horrible: Allegiant Flight Attendant Power Trip Prevents Sisters From Seeing Dying Father

Ugh, here’s a sad story. We hear all of the time of people getting kicked off planes for a variety of reasons. Some of them are valid, some of them aren’t valid, and some of them are somewhere in the middle. For better or worse, flight attendants have virtually unlimited authority since 9/11. If they don’t feel “comfortable” with someone aboard, they can have them removed from the plane.

I support that concept in theory, because situations have a tendency to only escalate more once a plane is in the air. The problem is that it assumes all flight attendants are level headed, compassionate people, and sadly that’s not the case (a vast majority are, but like every industry, there are bad apples). Sometimes I can’t help but shake my head at what goes down, like this story.

Two sisters were flying Allegiant Air from Orlando, Florida, to Asheville, North Carolina, on Monday, to visit their father. Shortly before the plane left one sister received a text saying that the father had only hours left to live, and wanted to console her sister. They were understandably an emotional mess.

That’s where the story begins, per Click Orlando:

“I didn’t know if my sister was getting the same text and (I) was I thinking, ‘I need to go back and tell her,'” Baker said.

Baker said once she got up to tell her sister, a flight attendant stepped in.

“She said, ‘You need to sit down’ and I said, ‘Well, can I just sit here? I just want to console my sister. We just got word that my dad’s dying,'” Baker said.

Hartman said she started having a panic attack and the situation escalated after Baker confronted the flight attendant for not being compassionate.

“(My sister) said (to the flight attendant), ‘You’re being very rude. My father is dying, and I’m comforting her,’ and they said she needed to keep her personal problems off the plane,” Hartman said.

Minutes later, the sisters said the flight attendant called the captain, the plane turned around and airport security escorted them off the flight.

Allegiant Air released the following statement regarding the incident:

At Allegiant, we rely on our crew members to provide and oversee a safe environment for every passenger, on every flight. We expect that authority to be exercised both judiciously and consistently, with empathy and with good judgment. We take this customer feedback seriously and are in the process of conducting an investigation into what occurred.

Here’s a news segment interviewing the sisters:

And here’s a YouTube video made by one of the other passengers who witnessed it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOO3I1BPr0U

This is horrible. Even if one of the sisters was being rude in how she addressed the flight attendant, you’d think they’d have some compassion. This is very different than a drunk person throwing a fit and cussing everyone out. This lady was probably dealing with one of the most difficult things she’s had to deal with, and as humans we should have compassion for that.

If a flight attendant isn’t able to downplay a situation when someone is dealing with something like this, can we really expect them to calmly deal with an emergency?

This is a very sad situation, and I hope that Allegiant takes action, and shares what they do with us.

(Tip of the hat to Live and Let’s Fly)

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robert reddell Guest

I was just thrown off alligant air, and was only told after words that I was aggressive, I have no idea how or to who... I think they confused me with someone else. ended up having to get a hotel and schedule a different flight (frontier) out however I couldn't get on to the same airport where my cars was for days.. end up flying to one and ubering to the other. I was never spoken too by anyone from the crew, the called my wife over the loud speaker and told her... police came and they thought I should be allowed back on they spoke to piolit and he said no. other passangers put together a pettion to get me back on, they said no. I was out of luck and money and still don't know why.

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Emily Guest

Nothing like learning that your father only has hours to live via a text. While I don't know the situation, we all know that the flight attendant is responsible for passenger safety. If the one sister was standing, the pilot certainly couldn't stop the aircraft to ensure her safety. Rules need to be followed.

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Pat Hazlewood Guest

Maybe the lady knew that the will was not signed and she hadn't talked to her mother in quite some time. LOL Sorry if that offends. None of us are actually prepared for how we might react to the loss of a loved one, whether it is naturally impending or sudden. BUT on an airplane, maybe she should have taken a tranquilizer ahead of time if she was prone to panic attacks. The flight staff never know What the REAL situation is. There are so many imposters out there these days. RIP . There is a lesson here. Be prepared. It is not IF it is WHEN this will happen to each of us .

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JohnB Guest

Don't fly Allegiant. As an airline, they are horrible. They buy old airplanes and don't do the service intervals, as Allegiant sells aircraft before they have to do the expensive maintenance. 3 years ago, over half of the Allegiant fleet was grounded over the escape slides not being serviced properly. Allegiant nickels and dimes passengers for every little thing including boarding passes. Allegiant.....bad, bad airline! Can't say, if these women would have had a different experience on another airline, but....

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Fer Guest

Some people will not relate to the story because they have parents who they never visit and don't give a damn about. Stop obsessing with rules! Rules are for stupid people; real good people do not need them because they know right from wrong every time. Cabin crew could have calmed her down in the time it took her to get in touch with the captain to turn around the plane. American crews power trip every so often, that it is no news at all anymore... They should be more carefully screened for mental health, as they tend to be the loud, hysterical, power hungry, rule addicted types.

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