Why Can’t American Airlines Flight Attendants Consistently Say “Hello?”

We know that American is greatly lagging Delta and United when it comes to financial performance, and executives at the airline finally realize that the airline needs to become more premium in order to succeed. So American has made an impressive number of positive changes in recent times, which the airline should be commended for.

What I find sad is the extent to which the airline fails at the basics, and seemingly doesn’t have a plan for addressing that. This seems like it should be the easiest thing to fix, yet the airline can’t seem to actually make any headwind there…

I’m on a no “hello” streak on American Airlines

It doesn’t really matter where in the world you travel, it’s pretty standard for the flight attendant at the entry door of an aircraft to proactively greet passengers as they board a plane. Like, that’s true on Delta, EasyJet, Emirates, Singapore Airlines, etc. It’s just the industry standard.

Yet I increasingly find that when I fly American, the flight attendant doesn’t even look up during boarding to acknowledge passengers. I understand flight attendants are sometimes busy during boarding, and I’m understanding if the catering truck is pulled up to the forward right door, or something. But even when nothing special is going on, I find I’m having the same experience way more often than I should.

For example, take the flight I’m on this morning. Despite the flight having dozens of empty seats and boarding starting on-time, the flight attendant at the door didn’t proactively greet a single passenger. She didn’t even look up.

Go figure that once 90% of passengers were onboard, she still spent 10 minutes in the forward galley chatting with a colleague, before passing through the cabin with cups of water.

I wouldn’t think much of this in isolation, except on my last flight on American, I had exactly the same thing happen — the flight attendant at the boarding door just didn’t bother greeting passengers. The only thing I heard is her colleague loudly telling her how he’s “an Airbus queen,” and how he “hates the Boeing 737.” Nice.

Oh, and my flight before that on American? The same thing. Three flights in a row where the flight attendant at the door just didn’t greet passengers.

To be clear, even when they don’t say hi to me, I still say hi to them, and then they’ll respond. But then I also watch how they interact with others, and it’s the same thing — greetings seemingly aren’t included with the fare, and are only offered if they’re “forced” into it.

Here’s the irony, though. In all three cases, the flight attendants were actually pretty decent after takeoff. So it makes you wonder where this falls on the scale of not knowing how to provide good service vs. not caring to provide good service.

A greeting upon boarding shouldn’t be complicated

Why am I making a big deal out of a simple greeting?

My goal here isn’t to blast a few individual flight attendants, but instead, to point out how broken American’s culture is, under the current leadership. Employees just obviously aren’t aligned with the larger goals of the company, both due to a lack of vision and clear communication from leadership, and also a lack of incentive to care (American’s profit sharing is abysmal, because there are barely any profits to share).

Some people might be saying “well who cares about a greeting?” I think in just about any customer facing setting, first impressions matter a lot. When you fly an airline, you don’t actually interact with that many different employees, especially with the number of self-service options nowadays.

For many passengers, their first interaction will be with the gate agent, and then the flight attendant. I don’t know about you, but I set my expectations for a flight within seconds of boarding, based on the first impression the crew makes.

Sometimes you’ll just have the loveliest flight attendants at the door (including many at American), who warmly greet each passenger with a big smile, compliment passengers, interact with kids, etc. Not only is it really professional, but it can’t help but just make you feel really welcome.

Airlines are obsessed with improving their net promoter scores, and to me, this is the most basic thing they can do to improve customer perception of an experience.

To give another example, I don’t know about you, but within five minutes of arriving at a hotel, I’ve already subconsciously decided how I think the experience is going to be. First impressions really set the tone for things.

And along those lines, let me pay Delta a compliment. If you ask me, the single thing that Delta does best is consistently having employees make customers feel like they matter, especially premium customers. From check-in, to entering the lounge, to boarding, to flight attendant greetings, employees show a fairly consistent level of gratitude toward customers, and it makes a difference. You really feel like the people who you’re interacting with don’t feel inconvenienced to have showed up to work.

Delta employees are good at being nice to customers

Bottom line

While it’s minor in isolation, I’ve now been on three American flights in a row where the flight attendant at the forward door didn’t bother to greet passengers. I just don’t get it, because this seems like such a basic role for a flight attendant.

I can see this happening once in a while, but at American, it seems to be 50/50 nowadays as to whether the flight attendants bother to look up during boarding to greet passengers.

I’m delighted to see American trying to improve its product and become more premium, but the most basic part of that has to include a focus on the culture and service. We’ve (sort of) seen American executives lay out their vision for investing in the experience, but I haven’t seen any detailed acknowledgement of the company’s culture problems.

This just seems like such an obvious thing that crews need to get right. If you’re greeted by a super friendly flight attendant at the door, you can’t help but have a positive impression, and view other aspects of the flight more positively. Meanwhile if you’re not even acknowledged, the opposite is true.

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John Doe Guest

American airlines should grow a backbone and clean house. There are a LOT of employees who need to go. Not only does this have a negative impact on passenger experience but also the experience of working for the company. So many people who are currently employed are MISERABLE. Weed them out. Anyone who wants to say it’s because of pay and blah blah blah that is 100% on the employee for not doing their due diligence before applying for a career that requires commitment patience and empathy.

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Susie Guest

I am a Flight Attendant and I couldn’t agree more! I love serving and politely making others feel welcome is BASIC and I set that tone on all my flights! We should never be socializing in the galley loud enough that our arrogance is shown. Be humble servant leaders! I. Additional to feeling welcomed for me I am connecting with peoples celebrations, anniversaries and yes often going to something sad or treatment for an illness….the list goes on! Those connections honestly for me help create a calm atmosphere and an uneventful one. Making connections creates safety it’s basic if I know you or just complimented you, someone is unlikely to act up. In addition, I tell all my crews it takes often months and years to prepare for that day if you are not a frequent flyer, so I intent to give you the best day ever! 19 years later, I’m the same every day! Stop bragging about being a FA, walk down that terminal showing a smile and presenting ourselves proudly and with grace! Sorry, on behalf of all of us for your experience, I hope to fly with you and to show you how I appreciate my job! It’s because of you!

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AeroB13a Diamond

This situation is simply a symptom of the current state of the mentality of the U.S. population. Once renowned for being a most polite society, “Yes Sir”, “No Mam”, “After you Mam”. Now, mostly due to being a film, TV and with the appalling influencers social media lead society, the whole country is falling into disrepute. Those of us who are old enough to remember (and still have the mental capacity to do so) can attest to the fact that American society was once great. Not anymore! The country has become one which is spoiled by some rude, crude and quite revolting individuals. Now, I am not for one moment suggesting that the subject FA’s fall into the aforementioned stereotype, however, from experience the standards of American public behaviour has deteriorated. Some of which has undoubtedly filtered through to the FA’s on the door, etc. One has to ask …. do rude passengers, couldn’t care less FA’s make?

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STEFFL Diamond

No surprise: ... typical, global known superficial US way of doing things! AA is no exception in that. Recently flew 4 AA sequences HNL-DFW-ORD-CLT-MUC, different Service Classes, NOT once was there any eye contact (even if i greeted first, at least on HNL-DFW) but what they are good at, in giving ORDERS, instead of informing politely to move hand luggage from Exit row, jacket not allowed on lap at take-off Exit row, Business Class Glass had to be removed due to turbulences across the pond, and most wanted commend "SEAT BELTS" . . . yeah, what about seat belts, do you want them, are you going to hit me with seat belts, are you asking me if i have them on my seat (which the cabin crew should check before the flight or any passengers on the plane) . . . so what command is, "SEAT BELT", when it should be possible for grown up people, to speak in full sentences "please fast your seat belts"! . . . fascinating, US (all airlines) are short on building a decent sentence, but when they chat in the Galley, no matter when or what day-/nighttime, . . . they speak like adults and know how to form a full sentence and could talk NONSTOP! . . . so maybe they are just too annoyed to have paying passengers on bord? Not only typical US superficial, but also annoyed?! . . . WHY on heaven's earth should anybody spend the sour earned money spent at such a company? . . . Miles, Status . . . yeah, but then BIG in complaining, . . . the passenger often has a choice . . . so why not cut ties completely or at least write a complaint on NON EXISTING hospitality, if you give an airline your business! They tell you too, what to do, right? "Seat Belts", boradingpass, any bags to check, you have to remain seated, . . . . so why think of ANY airline Crew as a Saint? . . . They're here to do a job and have a manual that tells them exactly what customer service means, if needed giving orders, but DON'T forget the hospitality aspect too! US airlines especially!

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AeroB13a Guest

This situation is simply a symptom of the current state of the mentality of the U.S. population. Once renowned for being a most polite society, “Yes Sir”, “No Mam”, “After you Mam”. Now, mostly due to being a film, TV and with the appalling influencers social media lead society, the whole country is falling into disrepute. Those of us who are old enough to remember (and still have the mental capacity to do so) can attest to the fact that American society was once great. Not anymore! The country has become one which is spoiled by some rude, crude and quite revolting individuals. Now, I am not for one moment suggesting that the subject FA’s fall into the aforementioned stereotype, however, from experience the standards of American public behaviour has deteriorated. Some of which has undoubtedly filtered through to the FA’s on the door, etc. One has to ask …. do rude passengers, couldn’t care less FA’s make?

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