Delta Flight Attendant Accuses Colleague Of Not Helping Grieving Family

A Delta flight attendant is justifiably upset about the way that one of their colleagues treated a family going through the worst situation imaginable, as flagged by PYOK. Unfortunately this seems to be one of those cases where the human touch is lost in the airline industry, which is all too common…

Delta flight attendant upset over Red Coat’s actions

A Delta flight attendant recently posted online to share an experience where they were frustrated by the way that one of their colleagues treated a couple dealing with an unimaginably tough situation. Let me just quote the entire post:

We talk SO much about being the Delta difference and making connections with our customers, but when it comes down to the moments that would TRULY matter, how do we drop the ball so badly?

A young family was woken up this morning to the unthinkable news that 2 of their teenage children had died in a car accident. They booked the first flight they could (mine) to check on the surviving child who is currently in critical condition at the hospital.

My crew spoke with the Captain, requesting that we please have a “Meet and Assist” or Red Coat meet the family at our gate to help them navigate Atlanta airport from terminal A to terminal C. (Not getting lost should be the last thing on their minds at a time like this).

Simple, right?

Show empathy, compassion, and go just a LITTLE bit of the extra mile to help a grief-striken couple?

Instead, said Red Coat (AFTER having been briefed by us and being aware of the situation) points at the board with departures, then gestures in the general direction of Terminal C…from gate A10.

I am so upset right now on behalf of these people.

And most of all, I am extremely disappointed in us.

This was NOT a difficult ask.

Being kind to a grieving family on what is likely the worst day of their lives is NOT something that is beyond a Delta family to do. Again.

I am so extremely disappointed.

For those not familiar, Red Coats are Delta’s higher ranking airport customer service agents. Think of them as supervisors, who are supposed to provide the best customer service, and help customers when things go wrong.

A Delta flight attendant was disappointed by their colleague

It’s disappointing to see this level of care at Delta

I think all too often, the human touch is lost in the airline industry. In some ways, that’s understandable — it’s such a complex industry, and there has to be a focus on efficiency, and dealing with matters in a calm and non-emotional way. Furthermore, given the number of people that airline employees deal with, it’s natural to be desensitized a bit.

At the same time, this incident is really unfortunate to read about. While Delta’s service isn’t as differentiated as in the past (in my opinion), Delta still does want its employees to go above and beyond for people. Executives at the company always talk about the “Delta Difference.” Clearly the flight attendant in this situation recognized that, and tried to go out of their way to empathize with passengers.

I have to imagine that these parents were having the worst day of their life, and a little bit of compassion would’ve gone a long way. It just seems borderline heartless for the crew to ask the Red Coat to do something in a situation like this, and for the Red Coat to them simply point them to the departures board.

If anything, this seems like one of those situations where they should’ve rolled out the red carpet to give these passengers a Porsche transfer on the apron, to make their day better.

I’ve gotta say, in my experience, Delta’s airport customer service agents are a mixed bag. Flight attendants and lounge staff are generally very professional, but aside from that, it’s a game of roulette.

On a recent flight out of JFK, the two gate agents were arguing with one another over some personal matters, to the point that one told the other it was taking all her will to not get physical. Not exactly a great look, especially in front of customers…

I find Delta’s airport agents to be a mixed bag

Bottom line

A Delta flight attendant recently had a couple on their flight who had just lost their two kids in a car accident, with a third kid in critical condition. This seemed like an obvious situation in which compassion was warranted, so the crew contacted airport operations in Atlanta, so that the couple could be brought to their connecting gate.

Instead, the flight attendant claims that the Red Coat (who is supposed to be a senior customer service agent) simply pointed them to the departures board, and that was the extent of it.

What do you make of this Delta flight attendant story?

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Paulette Brown Guest

The responsibility belonged to both parties depending on scheduling issues the flight crew coming off may have had more knowledge of the situation and more familiar with the passengers who were in crisis could have choose to escort the family when we are part of an organization there is no job that is above or beneath anyone it is just a matter of putting yourself in the other person shoes and go above and beyond to provide quality service and represent the company in the best possible manner. I have been a Delta customer for many years I have had my share of excellence in customer service and other situations that I have had to have positive but straight forward conversation with staff to address customer service concerns. It is unfortunate that this happened but I believe that addressing concerns within the company rather then going viral initially better serves the situation. I believe in transparency however sensitivity to managing these situations is key. My condolences to the family and I am sure that Delta will address the situation appropriately. Consistent Customer service training done to standard is key

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James & Kristen Hobbs Guest

Very, VERY disappointed in this supervisors actions. This person, (void of compassion), should NOT be in a supervisory position. What a sad, sad person. Do better Delta.

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Jane Guest

Everything in the airline industry, as far as I am concerned, has been "dumbed-down" to unprofessionalism at its best. That "red coat" should should have been fired. And I think if I was the flight attendant and was not transitioning to another flight, I would have personally myself walked them to their next flight. No one "thinks out of a box" or has "common sense" anymore. I've worked for two airlines in my working days, both of which was "behind the scenes." But just going to an airport now to travel is cringe-worthy. I hold my breath for fear some agent, ticket counter person, flight attendant, "red coat," (or whatever they are called!!) no longer puts the human touch into helping people. Try smiling! Try looking/being engaged when someone needs help or guidance; be proud to wear the uniform of the airline you represent. Can't tell you how many ticket counters I've gone past (any airline for that matter), where the employees look like they work for McDonald's and are about as helpful as a robot. This is what the airlines are now hiring -- non-engaged, slovenly, uncaring, self-centered jerks that ruin it for the ones who really are hard workers and appreciate having a job!

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Tim Gunn Guest

While help might have been a nice thing, I think even a grieving family can get between gates/terminals. ATL is big, but navigable. Of course the FA could have walked the family over. But, I guess it wasn't THAT important to them.

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Me Myself Guest

While this family's situation was known, are you aware of exactly how many grieving families/people are traveling through the Atl airport at any given time? So the Porsche experience should be rolled out to all to get them across the tarmac? What is wrong with directing them to where they need to go? Why didn't the original FA who posted this personally take them herselves if she felt this strongly about it? Because she had other things to do? Maybe at that time the RedCoat had many other issues to deal with having had short notice ...

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