The 'average person' cannot afford to stay in those hotels. According to the various internet calculators, I'm easily in the top 1% globally in terms of both income and wealth and I would only be able to justify spending the 70k yen that the Patina charges per night next month if travelling for a special occasion...if one is travelling for a special occasion, they will obviously be inclined to invest a bit of time in researching the hotel they're staying in. If one is happy to spend that sort of money on a regular basis, they should delegate the research to their personal assistant or travel agent instead of getting suckered in by random lists.
Ben, you had me at “circle jerk”… :-O
In all seriousness, regardless of who’s doing the rating, I remain skeptical on hotels and airlines; feels very ‘pay to play’… the only standout remains Michelin for restaurants; they’re on it.
Ben, aren't you essentially doing the same thing though, when you publish things like best first class or best business class airlines? Obviously you have less pull than travel and leisure, but I do see various brands advertising that they were named this or that by a particular blogger.
I'm not particularly criticizing you or for that matter the magazines. At least you have a website that provide an independent service. In this and other industries I have seen organizations or entities that seem only to exist for the purpose of giving out rankings and things like that. But I don't think that's intrinsically wrong as long as there's some transparency into how those ratings were calculated so people can see what the judge is evaluated and decide for themselves whether that is relevant to them or not. (
It's been many years since Travel & Leisure was considered to be a trusted and authoritative travel publication and like Forbes or Newsweek, I'm surprised anyone with knowledge of the publishing or travel business pays any attention to their various rankings. On the other hand I do think Conde Nast Traveler still has some credibility.
Have you really become so jaded (and pampered) that the only thing that excites you anymore is expecting a "life changing hospitality experience", be it in a hotel or on a plane?
Maybe you need to seriously consider moving the focus of your blog upward in terms of exclusivity and cost for the places you go and write about. Move your focus to private jets and flights--what is the best private jet for US domestic vs international travel, or how to rent or lease private jets. Limit your hotels and resorts stays and reviews to only places that someone like Bill Gates, Soros, or other billionaires would go to escape the mere multimillionaires that can pollute even higher end resorts.
There is also room to move up in terms of ocean voyages beyond merely very expensive cruises that are still open to the general public. Move into reviewing private yachts--how much can you afford and get if you are only a single digit billionaire vs. what you can get if you are someone like Larry Ellison, and where to go in your private yacht, either for gorgeous private views or to be seen by the paparazzi.
After all, by your own figuring you wave already flown every first class airline experience that exists. Maybe this new focus can provide the hospitality experiences you are seeking.
I don't think this is going away, although I totally agree about expectations. Isn't that true of almost everything? When something exceeds our expectations we tend to be more positive than when something falls below (even if on a objective scale it was better). As a consumer, I do land up using reviews as a way to gauge if I want to stay at a hotel (knowing that the reviews systems are flawed). As a (hopefully) discerning reader of reviews and ratings, I try to pay attention to the features I care about because I realize that often these "best hotels" are rated for their amazing spas. I don't care. I do care about location and a decent sized room with a walk-in shower and no stairs (I'm getting older). And I do appreciate your reviews because you give details that help me decide if it meets my criteria, although I would love more boutiques that are fabulous without being Cheval Blanc level pricing!
For 99% of my travel, an hotel or an airline is a means to an end, and then I only see how the end is going to be fulfilled, and don’t pay any attention to rankings. To put it bluntly, a direct 2 hour flight in Ryan beats every day an 8 hour flight with one or two scales to enjoy a 5 star airline. Hotels are the same, for business or pleasure I wil set what are my requirements and see how to fulfill them at a reasonable cost. Don’t get me wrong, I have travelled in most of the premium airlines and stayed in very fancy hotels. But most times I am paying top dollars for location more than for a flawless service and wow amenities that are the issues theoretically captured by the rankings.
I enjoy finer things in life as much as anyone. However, I don't give a rat's ass to ratings of airlines, hotels and restaurants from any of these ratings firms or for that matter individuals like Ben. Chasing the ratings is a fool's errand.
When it comes to air travel, whether I get a comfortable seat (lie-flat for long haul) and a decent meal are the only factors I consider after price.
When it comes to hotels, a clean room with a comfortable bed in a convenient location are the only factors I consider after price.
With regards to hotels, the cuisine I am in the mood for and the hygiene (hard to measure, but I know what I don't like when I see it) of the place are the things that matter most to me.
One of the things I've noticed when staying at a really nice hotel in a vacation destination is there's very often one person who felt this trip could fix whatever they didn't like about their life, and when it inevitably doesn't, they somehow blame the hotel for coming up short. I've seen someone dress down the hotel restaurant manager at a five star resort in a way that made me friends with the guy at the other table who mouthed to me "what a douchebag". I've seen someone flip out because a hotel didn't have sufficiently "romantic" stationary to write a note to his wife on. A restaurant my wife and I really like suddenly started getting bad reviews after they got a Bib Gourmand award because random out-of-towners had wild expectations for a pizza place. Getting that high profile status leads to the worst broken, unreasonable expectations falling on the heads of the staff that work there.
So true @Lucky. I cannot believe HU and KE are among five star ranking especially in the viewpoint of the individual. It makes the customers have less faith in the opinions of SkyTrax. I had much better passenger experience on non five star SkyTrax rating such as CI and HX.
Think the best should be on what based on what memorable impression a property can leave on most patrons.
One example, stayed at Capella Bangkok once upon a time. Soon after it was voted the best on the planet. I told somebody I stayed at that property and instantly they asked me what made it the best in the world. I really could not recall my trip there. It was fine. Great service. Some pretty good restaurants. But nothing that really stood out. Nothing that could separate it from a host of other ultra luxe properties on the planet.
But i have stayed at palace hotels in India. Some beyond perfect experiences, some slightly less than perfect. But the grandeur of those palaces, made it the most memorable stays of my life. And i don't think any of those hotels made it to the list of the "Top 50" hotels in the world list i saw recently.
So i don't think these lists are worth the paper they are printed on.
@Throwawayname
Ok 2 parts.
1. "I don't get to define the 'average person"
Neither do I. Average income and wealth is defined by using math and statistics.
2. You're missing the point.
This hotel is not a commodity. It's not built or marketed for everyone. Hence using average is ..... (me censored for trying to be less critical)...
Incidentally, if we are going to use an individual in this case. It's like you're saying a Usain Bolt is very slow. The "average" cheetah is much faster than him.
I don't know why people have issues with Ben reviewing expensive trips. I keep defending Ben for the same issue with a different wording.
It always comes down to this.
One thinks this is a property for oneself to consider or afford.
But in reality, these properties are not catered to people like oneself.
BBT nails it. The stays people remember are about place more than polish. The Rajasthan palaces are a great example, Umaid Bhawan in Jodhpur or arriving at the Lake Palace in Udaipur by boat. No list really captures that feeling. Same with a rural ryokan in Japan where half the magic is the onsen and the kaiseki dinner. FWIW since so many award picks spread through short videos, a free app like Plotline saves those Insta and TikTok hotel finds onto a map so you can weigh them against places you found yourself. My rule is to read the 3 star reviews first, they tell you what an ordinary night there is like
