What to do when you don’t see eye-to-eye with your lunch?

So I ran into an interesting situation while at lunch earlier today, and I’m curious to hear how you guys would have handled it.

Let me start by saying that I was a vegetarian for eight years. When I was young I saw one of those slaughterhouse videos, and I was done with meat for a long time. Eventually I kind of got over it, though I still only eat meat that doesn’t totally resemble the animal, if that makes any sense. In other words, I eat chicken breast (as opposed to chicken wings or chicken legs), I have my steaks cooked medium or medium well, etc. I realize it’s not completely logical, though that’s what works for me.

Anyway, fast forward to today. We had lunch at the Spanish restaurant at the Hotel Kempinski. I was eying the vegetable paella and tried to order it, though was informed that it was for a minimum of two people. Darn. Nothing else on the menu really interested me, so I ended up ordering the king prawns. I like shrimp, and it seemed like the “safest” option.

45 minutes later (service is S-L-O-W in Spain) the waiter brings me this dish:

Oh boy. I knew there was no way on earth I was going to touch the “prawns.” I don’t like being “eye-to-eye” with what I’m about to eat, not to mention the fact that I wouldn’t even know how to eat these kinds of prawns. Obviously this was largely my fault since this is often the way they’re served in Spain, though I had no clue.

So how would you handle this situation? I had no problem paying for the meal, though I did feel bad wasting it. Furthermore, there was a language barrier between us and the waiter, so we were limited with our options.

Our course of action in the end? I’ll let the picture speak for itself:

Not my proudest moment, though it was a sticky situation.

I’m very curious to hear what you guys would have done, so I have a response ready the next time I run into this situation.

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Yummm Guest

Those look delicious!!! What's the point of traveling if you don't try new things?

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Jason H Guest

Good grief some of the comments here are just callous and uncalled for. Not everyone has an iron stomach or the willingness to eat anything put in front of them. If Ben doesn't like eating foods that look like the animal it comes from what is wrong with that? Nothing! It is his choice. I've had a big prawn put on top of my pasta plate before in Hawai'i and I didn't particularly care for it. Like Ben I didn't understand at the time how to eat it and absent that help I wasn't about to figure it out at the table. Like Ben I left the bugger on my plate. Does that make me some lesser-American-glutton? No. For those of you saying that Ben is close minded you need to check the mirror. Not everyone is going to choke down something that disturbs them just because it is on their plate. To believe they should is pretty darn close minded. Finally, those that seem to think this is an inherent trait of the United States you might need to get out of your country and come visit. When you swing by Denver I'll treat you to some Rocky Mountain Oysters. I won't eat with you... that is one "delicacy" I'm not going to stomach again.

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purplnurpl Guest

lol @JetAway "Whenever I’m served shrimp/prawns this way, I break off their little heads and line them up on the plate like a gallery or choir so they can watch me eat (the rest of them)." I need to remember that.

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Dax Guest

One of the things that separates men from boys is a willingness to try new foods without fretting or fussing over it. As an adult I've found that I can tolerate and even enjoy many things I never would have imagined as a boy. I can understand your preference to keep things simple on a plane as freshness is going to take a major hit when everything is already prepped and sitting around waiting to be loaded and reheated. However, in a restaurant like this the freshness should be obvious before you even take your first bite. As to everyone bashing Americans for our backward eating habits, keep in mind that not all of us are finicky eaters. There are plenty of restaurants that don't cater exclusively to your inner child here in the US. You can order everything from raw sea urchin to spicy intestinal soups to fried cow testicles if you so desire.

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Chas Guest

Eat the whole thing. The heads are crunchy but tasty, as are the tails.

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